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writes:I'm a bisexual female in an open relationship with a man. He is currently dating another woman and myself. We are all aware of each other and have even become friends, but not intimate at the same time. I went away to college, and the two decided to get an apartment together back in my hometown. Recently, the woman has lost our trust due to an incident where she wasn't being honest. My boyfriend has been able to forgive her, however, I still am wary of trusting her. My boyfriend and I have been arguing frequently over how I should make up with the woman. Now he's made a rule that if I come back to visit him, I must participate in a threesome with her. I told him that it sounded controlling and I refused. He tells me that if I'm not able to accept her, then I'm not able to accept him. He also tells me that I'm being manipulative by not wanting to give up control. I love him dearly, but I don't want to be forced into something I don't believe in. Any help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI personally don't agree with this title, it was supplied to me. Thank you for the response. It has given me a lot to think about. I've been with him for over four years, and this is the first time he's ever given an ultimatium. I just feel that I have no say in this matter, and I really don't know what to do next.
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (31 July 2009):
 i think you are putting yourself down how can you allow a man you love to share you with someone else.why should he get the best of both worlds.if you dont trust the other woman or like her then you shouldnt participate in what he expects of you.if i was you i would let him down and move on with your life.how can you have a relationship with someone who is not only trying to force you into something you dont want but who is sharing you.
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