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writes:My ex and I broke up almost a year ago. We were nasty in the break up (he refused to return calls, I couldn't stop calling). It ended with a "don't ever call me again" and "don't call me until you're an adult" rant fest. We were both in the wrong, and I apologized, but it didn't seem to matter then.I have dated, I have had short relationships since him, but I really, truly want to rekindle with him. I guess I have two questions:Because of the bad behavior, how exactly am I going to fix this? We haven't spoken or seen each other in almost a year. Currently, he does have a gf, so I will not contact or even cross paths accidentally with him until she's clear out of the picture. His happiness means everything to me.
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (26 July 2009):
 a year is a long time not to have spoken to him.
i think you should really move on from this past.
take the lesson you have learnt from this away with you.
at the time you did apologise to him, you did the right thing.
currently he is in another relationship so you cant hope to rekindle anything yet.
good luck
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