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Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Dysfunctional Friendship/Romance

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - I live with my best friend in the whole world, but in the past we were a bit more than friends. I regret it now, but we've slept together many times - but it never felt like just sex, it was always really... loving. I started to fall in love with ...

I'm much better looking than she is, why did he dump me for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

31 January 2009 (F) - Hiya I still have contact with my ex bf, we speak everyday and see eachother still, Anyway basically he tells me about all these girls hes been sleeping with and how this one girl he sleept with her 7 times in one nite, then again, the other ni...

Do you think I should wait for her to come back from her year out and ask her out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

30 January 2009 (M) - Hello, A year or so back I started university and made friends with one of the kindest and nicest looking girls I have met. We meet up every week to chat and frequently chat online too. In November I took her to the botanical gardens to tell ...

How can I forgive him? Where do I begin to find the forgiveness over the anger and pain?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

30 January 2009 (F) - So I'm going to try and be brief with my history. I am married to the absolute love of my life. He has done everything completely right...Up to this point. Back in october 08 I took in a 17 year old girl who was heading down a path I knew all too ...

Do you guys think, he still loves me?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

29 January 2009 (F) - My husband and I like to do 3somes sometimes. It's his fantasy.. to have a 3some. I am not a lesbian but I like to try have 3some and want to know what it's like. I just want to make my husband happy cuz he tells me he never had any chance to do ...

Help me choose between two men!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Please help me chose between these 2 men, I feel like I love both of them. Please dont judge me, I really need some perspective on this. Man A Healthy Own House Car Car License Great Job Rather Anti-Social Independent Stubborn Funny W...

My guy and my half-sister...I am convinced something is going on...please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5775 days ago

28 January 2009 (F) - Somebody please help me???!!! I have this aching feeling that my half sister whom i have had a rocky relationship with is creeping with my dude!!! He once had a show 2 years ago..and she showed up wit friends because she knows someone else in ...

I tried a threesome and hated it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I have had a boyfriend for about 2 years and recently I found out he wants to watch me have sex with another man and he won't feel jealous or anything. We tried to do a threesome but I couldn't do it.. I couldn't stand another person touching my ...

How do I impress her without looking like a dork??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - I'm 15 and I like a girl at school who is the girl of my dreams and I can't stop thinking about her. She has almost got a boyfriend and they seem to be getting closer and closer. He's got that "killer smile" and I need braces. He's good at ...

Fantasizing about my girlfriend, me and her best friend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - Im in a awesome relationship. I love my girfriend but lately ive fantasize with having a threesome with her best friends. why? is this normal? finding your girlfriends friends atrActive?...

Should I make her or let her go?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

27 January 2009 (M) - This is my first post on this site. I have a perplexing problem. My wife and I have some new friends. We have been going over to their home on the weekend. Sometimes it is rather docile. Sometimes it is not. We drink alcohol and chat. There are ...

My boyfriend is making me sad/depressed

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5776 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am going through a really hard time in my life right now with a guy. I have been with this guy for about 3 years now and all of which has basically been off and on. We fight all the time now and break up almost every couple of ...

Guy who says I am his future girlfriend but cannot date me now due to the ex baby mama?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - Recently, after knowing a cute male coworker for awhile he asked me for a kiss at happy hour. I did not kiss him since he had a girlfriend but they were breaking up. Anyhow later the girlfriend discovered she was pregnant so I really did not want ...

He told some foreign girl online that he was single--leave him or dismiss it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I've been going out with this guy for about 3 weeks now, and I was friends with him for about a month before that. Anyway, like it or not, a standard protocol of mine when I am with a guy is to, after a few weeks, go into my bogus myspace ac...

Am I right to be jealous? Or am I just insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend 8 months,we get on very well and see each other alot but he has not told me he loves me yet (I have told him) so am a little insecure (but try not to show it). On Saturday, I met his friends for the first time, people ...

Who knows... is she or is she not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - Hi there I had been dating my now wife for 3 months and I asked her to marry me, 1 year later this came true. I am happy and everything is going well. The problem I have is that last year about 8 months into our relationship we went through a bad sp...

Should I do a threesome with him???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - I've been dating someone 4 months now and I have developed deep feelings for him. We aren't in a relationship right now because we both agreed to start off as friends and just go with the flow. He treats me right and we spend a lot of time together. ...

We're friends, but I had silent, stronger feelings, she now has a boyfriend, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

26 January 2009 (M) - I have this friend, we know each other for a year, and let's just say that our relationship has been very good. We're friends, sometimes the weird flirting thing would happen, even though we've never tried going out before, and well... I thought I ...

I got divorced, he didn't, should I wait around or what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - short version of the long story. I fell in love with my boss (though we are the same age). We started as great friends and everyone thought we were soulmates. Then he told me he was thinking of me all the time and that he could not get me out of ...

I don't think he has enough room for her and me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5775 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - ok how should i go about this relationship and am i wrong to feel this was? that is the question now here is the scenerio...i have been dating this man seriously for near a year, he is overall good to me and a joy to be around BUT he has an ex that ...

I am so in love and I want him back more than anything, despite him getting another woman pregnant...

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26 January 2009 (F) - Me and my husband are highs chool sweethearts. We have been together since we were 16 (12 years). I gave him his 1st born son and his first born daughter. We have been broke, homeless, had to walk with our kids in the freezing cold because we had ...

Two guys like me and I can't choose.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5778 days ago

26 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is a great guy, even though we haven't known each other for that long our realationship is going good; but now my boy bff is telling me he likes me and that I'm beautiful and stuff. So now I'm starting to like him back, but my ...

Boyfriend or crush??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

25 January 2009 (F) - I have a boyfriend and have been with him for 4.5 years and for the past week we have been fighting a lot over nothing, i have recently been feeling attracted to another guy who also has a girlfriend, i know he is also attracted to me because he is ...

We had threesome with wife's ex and now I feel sick

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

25 January 2009 (M) - My wife and I had a threesome the other night with her ex boyfriend, who is also a friend of mine from high school. The two of them dated right before we got together. He was her first love, and she lost her virginity to him, but they broke up a ...

Opinions!!! My boyfriend wants to watch me with another man - healthy and normal??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - Me and my man michael have been togther almost 5 months ever since we hit about 3 months he has been asking me to have a threesome with another man and him i dont feel comfortable i did it like 4 or 5 times thinking he would give it up but he told ...

I feel like we're in a rut and our relationship isn't progressing... what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

24 January 2009 (F) - I have a lovely boyfriend I have been seeing for a few months. I knew him as a friend for some time before we started having a relationship, so although it's only been a few months, we know each other well. But I'm starting to feel left out. He has ...

Love my BF, but so attracted to this guy! What to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5778 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Hi!Well, today I woke up, and a stupid dream turned out to change me a little,just a little.... I am dating this guy almost for a year ,and I love him, I care about him, we´re friends and sex is really great. We work together, which is really f...

A birthday threesome, good idea?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I am a 27 year old female that has been in a relationship with a male for two and a half years. He is the man I have seen in my dreams and I adore him and he the same (at least I hope..lol) Seriously, his birthday is coming up and he made a joke ...

Help me get him away from her - or me away from him!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Pleeeease help me, what should I do? I really like this guy who has a girlfriend who is giving him sex, and I've totally backed out of the picture but he keeps trying to draw me back in. He seems to need my attention by flirting with me which ...

The husband wants a threesome with the neighbor...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - help, my husband was talking about us having a threesome with our neighbor, what do i do?...

I love my boyfriend but I like his best mate too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Please help! I have a boyfriend, and i love him dearly, but the thing is, i sort of have feelings for his best mate, it weird though because i liked his mate way before i got with my boyfriend. we will call my boyfriend B and his mate D. Well as ...

How should my boyfriend and I deal with a girl who is trying ot get between us?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles, I have a question and the answer may be obvious to some, but I have never dealt with a situation like this before and I don't want to do the wrong thing and blow things out of proportion, I want to deal with this correctly. ...

There is this womanizer at work who seems to really like me, but also my ex who does to. Who to be with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I feel so confused. I don't know what to do. There are 2 guys in my life right now. The first one is actually my ex-boyfriend. My feelings for him are completely confused. I ended things with him because I didn't feel I loved him anymore. We st...

My boyfriend left me after 11 years for a younger woman.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - My boyfriend left me after 11 years for a woman who has a young boy of about 7-8 years, he 30 this year I'm 47 and she's 31, he's only been with her for 5 weeks. I found out last night she is a big girl size 16 and non atractive (I know there's ...

He's been cheating on me with his ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - Hey guys can anyone help me please I'm so desperate at the moment. I've been with a guy for well a year however the first 6 months were unoffical and now it's offical... however throughout the whole time he was always still talking to his e...

A month ago I found out that I wasn't the only one that he was in love with.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5780 days ago

23 January 2009 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for two months now. Just about a month ago I found out that I wasn't the only one that he was in love with. I was shocked at first and then found out the other girl started dating another guy. Just recently I've ...

If I see him with someone else at the part I'll be upset so don't know whether to go or not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5781 days ago

22 January 2009 (F) - I was seeing this guy for a while who I work with, he took me for lunch, cinema, dinner etc. He used to hug me and massage me, everything was great. I text him telling him that I liked him on new years eve but he never said anything about i...

Torn between ex girlfriend of almost 3 years and best friend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5782 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - Basically I'm torn between 2 women. One is my ex girlfriend of 2 and a half years, we had alot of problems mainly to do with trust, but I was so in love with her I couldn't imagine being with anyone else. I was even planning on asking her to ma...

Baby mama drama

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Just wanted to know should I be concerned if I'm dating a guy who has a daughter with his past relationship and he says that he has a close relationship with the mother of his child but she be acting like their back together like when she calls him ...

I don't want to lose her but she's not ready for a relationship now. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

21 January 2009 (M) - i have recently met a girl n we have been talkin for about 6wks now n we get on like a house on fire and have met up a few times aswel. we both enjoy each others company cos we have so much in common n feel we can tell each other everything. the ...

I've been crying myself to sleep at night overthis

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

21 January 2009 (F) - Okay, iv been with this guy for WAY over a year, but we arent dating like boyfriend girlfriend thing. He's 17, im 14, and I know how adults think us "kids" are to young to be in love. But truth be told, I defenitly know I am. He's generous, he makes ...

Am I starting to be jealous or what?

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20 January 2009 (F) - Hi, I don't know what to do any more. Me and my boyfriend been together for 11 months and I love him and trust him and I know he loves me but I'm not so sure about him trusting me too. Well I'm not at all the jealous kind, today it was freezing ...

He just opened up and told me he my be sexually attracted to a co worker...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend of 4 years and we have 2 kids. He just opened up and told me he my be sexually attracted to a co worker. He told me he knows 99 percent he don't want to be in a relationship with her. I asked him if I'm doing something ...

B/f's fantasy is a threesome but I have reservations

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5782 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - I'm in a stable loving relationship with a great guy. we are living together and engaged. One of his fantasies has always been to have a threesome with an older guy. I'm not entirely adverse to having a threesome but I have major insecurity and j...

My dad and the widow.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

20 January 2009 (M) - Dear cupid.org I am a 17 year old south asian, my dad is 61 and my mom is 47 years... of late my mom befriended a widow, she may about the same age as my mom.... she is quite attractive for her age.. my mom helped her get a job. Over a period o...

Confused and don't know who I want to be with.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5781 days ago

20 January 2009 (F) - I moved to tucson in february of 08. and immediately after i met this boy who is now my bestfriend. i have always had a crush on him and i recently found out that he feels the same about me. only reason we have never told eachother i guess is ...

Am I wrong for following my feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5784 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - Around this time last year I was messing around with this guy, that I thought I really liked. . . we finally made it offical in the beginning of the summer but after a week into our relationship I realized feelings wasn't true so it became a sexual ...

Is my girlfriend pushing her sister onto me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

19 January 2009 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for the past year and a half and we've been living together for 5 months. To make a long story short, I love my girlfriend, but I also like her sister too. Before I dated my girlfriend, my girlfriend actually ...

I'm running out of time, what guy do I choose ? ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5784 days ago

19 January 2009 (F) - I'm running out of time, who do I choose ? I'm 31 years old, never married, no kids, successful. I dated a man for 4 years, lived together for 3 years, we had a great relationship...long story short, he wanted to sell his house and move to an...

It's almost too much now to keep everything straight at work, home, and even with her. Any advice would be helpful.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5783 days ago

18 January 2009 (M) - I've been in this relationship with a single woman for 6 months, I'm unhapply married 30 years. It's getting harder with her when I leave to go home. She keeps saying she wants me to stay, that really makes me mad. Doesn't she realize I that it's ...