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51-59,
*nlyone2009
writes:I have been with my boyfriend of 4 years and we have 2 kids. He just opened up and told me he my be sexually attracted to a co worker. He told me he knows 99 percent he don't want to be in a relationship with her. I asked him if I'm doing something wrong and he said no and our sex life is great. He talked to her and told her the same and he told me that he talked to her. I asked him what age said and he replied, she just listened and said ok. I don't know how to feel or act. He tells me he is in love with me and he told me to just trust him?
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reader, eddie  +, writes (20 January 2009):
 Well I guess you should give him some credit for being honest but I'm not sure why he told the co worker. The fact he is attracted to someone else is normal. We all feel tugs of attraction from time to time. The fact he took the time to tell her is an issue. That is where he crossed the line. In my opinion it's best to get to the bottom of this as soon as you can.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (20 January 2009):
 You two need to talk some more. At least he is honest and open with you, that is a good start.
One thing though, don't start to blame yourself for his actions or feelings. He has a crush and that is it. How you two deal with it is what matters.
Btw, he said your sexlife is great.. Do you think it's great?
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