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writes:I've been dating someone 4 months now and I have developed deep feelings for him. We aren't in a relationship right now because we both agreed to start off as friends and just go with the flow. He treats me right and we spend a lot of time together. Well he wants to do a threesome with me and another girl. I don't mind trying it I'm just scared that it might ruin what we have going on now. So I need some advice on what to do? Has anyone ever done this then it just backfired? He said its just a fantasy he wanted to try out so I want to go ahead and do it so when we actually do get in a relationship it won't come up! Help me please!!
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (26 January 2009):
 Then it becomes a slightly more finely balanced descision but the main thing is i think you are scared because your feelings for this guy are deeper, deeper than his by the sounds it...id still be cautious xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes I do want to try it out as well I just don't want it tu backfire or anything. So should I do it still even if I'm willing?
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (26 January 2009):
Hmmm it's a tricky one but I see it most likely backfiring. My view of threesomes etc is that they probably should only be entertained when the relationship is well-established enough to cope with the emotions such a thing is going to provoke; ie, not at the stage you are at now with this guy.
If you are scared then I dont see how actually doing it then that is a good reason not too. I really dont see your reason that he might bring it up later on as being valid. Is it a fantasy of yours?? I feel not....I dont think you should do this to be honest. Good luck :)x
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