A
female
age
30-35,
*abi93
writes:Hi, I don't know what to do any more. Me and my boyfriend been together for 11 months and I love him and trust him and I know he loves me but I'm not so sure about him trusting me too. Well I'm not at all the jealous kind, today it was freezing outside and I had to go outside to p.e and I was cold. I kept on telling him I'm cold and stuff but I just wanted him to give me his sweater without me asking for it, so after a few tries he finally gave it to me, I kept it on for like a couple of minutes while I got to p.e, but when I was about to leave I told him to take it back cuz there's no point in me having it, if I'm gonna be running and stuff and to give it to me after 4 period cuz after that I always have to go outside to get to my next classes. After p.e he doesn't have his sweater and he has another girls sweater on. I look at him like really?? and ask where it's at. He said he gave it to another girl and I'm like why? and he said cuz she was cold, and she asked for it so I gave it to her and she gave me hers, once again I was cold, my sweater is one of those small normal sweaters when hers has like all this fur in it. I'm shivering and tell him, ok she was cold with this furry sweater on? My sweater really isn't made for winter and I'm freezing here, I ask if the girl was outside or inside, and he said she's gonna be inside for the next last periods. I just look at him really pissed off, and say well I have to go outside for every period, and that girl stays inside, with? you rather have your own girlfriend be cold outside, than her being cold inside? What kind of mess is that? He doesnt say anything, and he doesnt bother to get the sweater back from her. When I came home, nobody was at my house, and my mom has my keys so I had to stay out side from 2:30- till 6:00 when my parents get home. The day, I don't have a good sweater, none of my friends that live close by, rode my bus and my own boyfriend didn't give me his sweater, I get locked out. Well my point is, that him giving the other girls his sweater and them wearing it and them giving their sweater back and him and him wearing it kills me. I know it's just a sweater, but I started thinking since he took it home, what is he doing with it??? like sniffing it, and wishing that girl was his, I just hate this feeling. Is he doing that to tick me off? and should I tell him it bothers me, or don't say anything. or should I get another guy's sweater and say like since my own boyfriend won't give me his, I'll ask other guys for theres. Omg can you please tell me what I can do? Is this starting to become jealously, or what????
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