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writes:Me and my girlfriend have been dating for the past year and a half and we've been living together for 5 months. To make a long story short, I love my girlfriend, but I also like her sister too. Before I dated my girlfriend, my girlfriend actually wanted to hook me up with her sister. The two are very close and even slept in the same bed untill my girlfriend moved in with me (she's 21). I've never told my girlfriend that I cared or her sister that way and I've decided I never will nor will I pursue her sister. The thing is that my girlfriend keeps pushing her onto me. She will say things like, "Oh you two should go watch that movie, I think you both would like it." or "Aw, you like her don't you. It's ok, I want you to like her." The sister also texts me all the time and sometimes tells me how much she cares about me and stuff like that. Now the sister sleeps at our place maybe two times a week or so and I don't mind since we always have a good time. Recently though, she has starting wearing very revealing clothes around the apartment like see-through sleeping clothes. To top it off, the last few times she's been over, she slept the bed with me and my girlfriend. I know it's not just me because their parents have starting raising questions too. I can't say anything without alienating the both of them and making them feel uncomfortable, but to be honest I kind of like it so far and the temptation is irresistable. What should I do?
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reader, Rasgada Cicero +, writes (27 October 2009):
My friend I will be blunt with you. You love your girlfriend but before you two were together you liked her sister. Red flag there. She tried to get you two together. I agree with the first answerer it will break a family bond no matter what you do. The sister has been coming onto you by the way. That should be obvious to you. The girlfriend may be trying to push her sister on you. But the sister wants you which is why she is going to such lengths. I say do what your heart tells you to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI can't ask my girlfriend about it because I don't want her to get pissed at me and think that I am going to do something with her sister. At the same time, I really like her sister and I want to do things with her really bad. It's almost unbearable. I have all these thoughts about her, and what makes it worse is that I am almost certain she likes me too. I am really fond of the idea of having both, but in my head I think I'm crazy for thinking that. How do I go about finding out if it's even possible without asking?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2009): Tell your GF you are not comfortable with her sister sleeping in the same bed with you, especially when she's wearing revealing sleepwear. See how she reacts. If she thinks you're overeacting, or doesn't see anything wrong with it, ask what you're supposed to do when you want to have sex with her (your GF). Ask if you're supposed to ask her sister to leave the bed, or what you're supposed to do. I think you'll get an idea of why she keeps wanting you to like her sister. Either she wants to get rid of you, or she wants a three-way relationship with you and her sister. Her reaction to your objections to her sister in bed with you and your GF should tell you a lot. After you object to it, post back here to tell us what your GF's reponse was.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): oh my god! i think you have something here! damn! 2 girls who really want to get with you or your gf who is testing to see if youll do something?? be careful your gf could be testing you and if you really love you wouldnt want to make the wrong mistake. 1st you should sit them both down and confront them because its either they want to have a 3 sum with you or ur gf wants to see how far youll go. talk to them and see if shes testing you or if they want to do something kinky, and if its a test then explain your not into games, but if its not have fun!! :D
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