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writes:Hey guys can anyone help me please I'm so desperate at the moment.I've been with a guy for well a year however the first 6 months were unoffical and now it's offical... however throughout the whole time he was always still talking to his ex... I always told him that I was uncomfortable about that but he said that he still cared for her and didn't want her to be sad (they were together for 5 years)Every time he spoke to her or went to see her etc he told me about it, however recently I found out that he slept with her three months into our offical relationship... (as in September) I was soo broken but he says he's now changed and says he loves me and only me...I'm so confused to whether to give him another chance or just walk, please help??
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (23 January 2009):
 I'm afraid if he is still in contact with her then it looks like there is still something between them and you will only get caught in the middle.Unless he cuts her out of his life and never speaks to her again then you cannot be sure that he wont go back to her again. If you really love him then lay it down on the line with him - tell him its you or her and he has no other options. If he is serious about changing then he will cut her out of his life becuase you are giving him that second chance.If he is not willing to do that then it looks like you dont really have a future together I'm afraid. He took that friendship with the ex to a different level and he will never be able to go back to being just friends with her, dont let him do it again to you.Good luck!
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