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writes:Please help! I have a boyfriend, and i love him dearly, but the thing is, i sort of have feelings for his best mate, it weird though because i liked his mate way before i got with my boyfriend. we will call my boyfriend B and his mate D. Well as i said i liked D before i got with B, and i suppose all my feelings for D havnt gone even though i am with B and love him. What am basicly trying to say is I love my boyfriend but Still have feelings for his best mate. What should i do, Because its not fair on my boyfriend is it? if i like his best mate, but i dont properly love his best mate so i know i should stay with my boyfriend as i do totally love him. But its so complicated because his mate D makes me feel funny, and i get dead happy when he talks to me its weird, because i have seemed to get closer to D now im with B, and he seems to make time to talk to me, I love it when i get attention from D, because i just think he is so nice and fit and just a dream lad. but i know i would never get a relationship with him, and i want my relastion ship with my boyfriend to last but im confused why i have feelings for D? HELP? pleasE?Whats wrong with me ? Why do i have these feelings for D when i have a loving, caring, brilliant, boyfriend. ahh im so confused ? Help? what should i do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, Gummi  +, writes (24 January 2009):
The best thing you can do is follow your heart.... That's all I can really say... Trust your heart
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reader, masquerade711  +, writes (23 January 2009):
 In a nutshell, if you want your relationship with your boyfriend to last, do NOT start going after his best friend. That is the ultimate betrayal. If you know you're never going to be with "D", then why are you even entertaining the thought of leaving your boyfriend? To be honest, you should question your feelings for "B"...if you really loved him, you wouldn't be wanting his best friend. Love is exclusive. Always remember that.
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