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writes:I have this friend, we know each other for a year, and let's just say that our relationship has been very good. We're friends, sometimes the weird flirting thing would happen, even though we've never tried going out before, and well... I thought I was doing good, but lately I found out she's into another guy, and they're about to start going out and stuff... and even though I really like the girl, that hurts me very deeply, because I always had the doubt of "what if we could try it out?"... now, I'm in a tough place, because I see this girl twice a week, and if we hang out with our friends we usually see each other... So I don't know how will I be able to get myself off that... I know I can, I just don't know how... I also thought of talking straight up with her and confess that even though I'm happy that she is happy, I'm sad because I like her and I kinda wish that I was that guy... what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 January 2009): You're like my mirror image from 1 year ago. Don't repeat my mistake - Ask her out NOW! Don't don't don't wait and regret later.
You don't have to tell her you love her (that'll put her off), but definitely ask her out. Go on a few dates, flirt, kiss her.. you know the drill. Just don't wait until it's too long.
Goodluck.
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reader, didda123  +, writes (26 January 2009):
 I think you need to speak to her before she takes up with this other guy.
She obviously likes you as well but maybe because you never progressed things any further she has kept her feelings for you under control.
Arrange to meet her and tell her how you feel, you have nothing to loose if she by chance doesn't feel the same then you can deal with that then but the not knowing will drive you mad!
Hope you get your dream x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): You should tell her about your feelings, that you love her very much and she will be happy with you. If she is your good friend or best friend then she definately think about it. Best of luck.
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