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writes:Dear cupid.orgI am a 17 year old south asian, my dad is 61 and my mom is 47 years... of late my mom befriended a widow, she may about the same age as my mom.... she is quite attractive for her age.. my mom helped her get a job. Over a period of time this lady increased her visits to our house and my mom is kind enough to drop her every morning at the office in our car!One particular day while my mom was dressing to get ready to go to office my father was sitting in the living room with this lady mrs p... she got up and shook her body quite suggestively and dropped her saree( the cloth which covers the body), I watched all this from behind the curtain... she did not notice me! My father too continued to chat as nothing had happened! Now for the past 6 months my mom is working in another city and she had confided in the lady to have 'a look' at how we were doing.... we have to go to her house to call up our mom as we do not have the STD facility in our house... often I accompany my father.... and I see them staring quite unabashedly at each other despite my presence... once my father was replacing the tyre of our car he was wearing a lungi(a cloth which covers the groin)... it so happened this lady mrs p as I will call her came by and statrted to chat to my father... he was sitting in a position in which his penis was visible!(he was not wearing any underwear).. and this lady was staring shamelessly and drooling!Of late my father has become very sympathetic to mrs p as she is a widow... he even accompanies her to the market surreptitously, tells us about conversations with her, and he too ogles her!The other day my mom came for a brief holiday back home... and asked where my dad was? I told her "he is talking to mrs p"... my exasperated mom said..." has he gone away with her? I wonder whether women have a sixth sense about their spouses?My pop is a shy man and the last person I expect to commit adultery.... also of late he has been stocking aphrodisiacs in his cupboard ever since he met up with mrs p.... my query is there really an affair brewing? What can be done about it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): sit down and talk to your mom about this the longer you let this go on the more pain she'll be in. let your mother handle what comes next but at least tell her she deserves that.
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reader, PunkyPippi  +, writes (20 January 2009):
 Women usually know. Unless you KNOW something, I wouldn't say anything. Your father may be having an innocent friendship with Mrs. P, and he may not. It's not your place to say anything unless you ABSOLUTELY KNOW.
These people are all adults, and you really can't stop them from doing things.
Good luck... I am sorry you've been placed in this tough situation.
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