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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I love two men equally and I know I'm selfish. Which heart do I break?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - This is my first post. I am in a dilema. I love two men... James and Will (not real names). Dated James for two years when I moved offices and met Will. Me and James were fine until I met Will, me and Will clicked and sparked and everything that ...

Am I wrong not to believe my wife over this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Years ago and 1 or 2 years after we started dating there was a situation where I have never been able to believe that my girlfriend told me the truth. She was at a last day before Christmas work party at a tavern where there was always action and I ...

Can anyone understand the relationship I have with a married man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I know nobody would understand the relationship i have.I`m having an affair with a married man.I`ve tried to stop my feelings towards him,but he`s persistent in courting me.He did the best and the sweetest things to win my heart.I know that married ...

My partner speaks to her "friend" daily. Then I found sexual text messages...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - I have recently got engaged and moved in with my partner. Until last week, everything was perfect and i couldn't imagine anything else i could wish for in life until we were driving home from work, my partner took a phone call from a friend i had ...

Am I being used, stupid or plainly naive?? Our deal is unofficial and he still has feelings for an ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5979 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - hi,im really confused and to avoid getiing hurt again i would like some advice if poss. in about feb i started to date this guy i knew from work, it lasted about two weeks if that. things then became a little akward at work but we still remained...

We are ready to work at our relationship. Why then do I keep fantasizing about the guy at work I cheated with?

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30 June 2008 (F) - I cheated on my bf with a guy from work. We broke up because we had so many problems but then he showed me significant changes that made me want to be with him again. We talked some things over yesterday and I wanted a fresh start so I told him abou...

Could her actions mean she has feelings for me too even though she said otherwise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5966 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I have a crush on one of my friends and I told her the other day. She told me she didn't return the feelings but I wasn't expecting it because she had a boyfriend. I just wanted to get it off my chest because she's too good of a friend to keep ...

How do you tell your ex you've fallen in love with him? He has a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5980 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - How do you tell your ex boyfriend you've fallen in love with him when he's just got back with his gf he's still in love with? i cant let go and just feel empty without him. Life just seems boaring and there's nothing to do. I used to see him basi...

My partner is controlling and lies to me. Should I leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5981 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I need help, I found out my partner was arranging to meet by text someone they met online for real for coffee, it was all hugs and kisses texts, and they said lets meet coffee, then I found out and said what is it going to be me or that coffee, they ...

Two guys, only in love with one but can't get rid of the other, what shall I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5518 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Ok this is rather complicated and i am really stuck with it... Ive met a guy (boy 1) nd he is really sweet he asked me out and i said yes. But, there is another guy hu loves me(boy 2), i like him but not in that way and he tld me tht the only thing ...

I feel I am probably losing her - what can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5980 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - Hi, I met my girlfriend in high school. We went to college in the same city. After college I bought an apartment and we moved together. We have been together for 10 years. I am her only serious boyfriend. We are the best friend of each other an...

We are both in relationships but I like him. Does he really care about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5982 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - just wanted some advice. I have been working with J for two years. I love him. We both have partners but have said we are unhappy. We have always been there for each other etc.... I am leaving soon ( in three months) and i love him so much I ...

Has anyone got any tips or ideas for making me go off him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - I am not in a class with my best friend's ex. Because we only knew each other at the time we ended up sitting together etc and I found myself being very attracted to him. Of course I know he is NO GO area and I would never ever consider it. But I ...

Is he into me? Or is he confused? Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5984 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - I have been friends with this guy since I was childhood, he is 21 and Im now 22.I have currently finished with my partner Derek a few weeks now but John is with someone at the moment and has a 1 year old son, I have a little boy myself aged 4. The ...

Should I isolate myself in order to make a decision about who I want to be with?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - For the last 4 months or so I have been dating a guy. its been a really cool relationship, completely laid back and just fun really and also hes helped me through a lot and been completely supportive without putting pressure on me. However, i dont r...

Should I back off and until everything is sorted out with his wife?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - A friend of mine called sometime ago thinking something was wrong in his marriage, thinking I could heip since I spent time with his wife. I've known them for years, so I tried helping. then he went home early on night to spend time with her, and ...

I'm stuck between two lads - What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - hey i just wanted to see if any 1 cud help me? well the thing is there is these 2 lads i av likd 1 for 17 months and the other for bout 10 months. well i went out with the 1 i have 4 17 months for about 5 weeks then i finished with him and now i am...

How do I break up with my violent boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - How do I break up with my boyfriend? Bear in mind: 1. He really really loves me and this'll break his heart 2. I cheated on him, he doesn't know yet and I don't know if I should tell him because he said he'd kill me if I cheated 3. He gets viol...

I just know that he's "the one" but I don't know how to make him see that!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - What do you do if you love your best friend, and you know in your heart that he's meant for you, but he lives in another country, and he has a girlfriend that he loves and thinks of you only as a best friend? I'm going crazy because my friend is so ...

I cheated on my boyfriend and I don't feel guilty. Do I have no morals or is it a reflection of my crumbling relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - Why don't I feel guilty for cheating? I've been with my bf for a year and things have been really bad between us for a while now, we can't seem to fix it but he won't let me break up with him. Last night I ended up giving a blow job to a guy from...

I'm still dreaming with my ex but I am now married! I don't know what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5795 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - My problem... I keep dreaming of my ex-boyfriend. I've been married for 3 years and have a child with my husband. I love my husband very much and I always have. I dated my husband before I dated the ex that I am dreaming of. My ex and I dated ...

I feel like there are three people in the relationship and it's making me insecure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

24 June 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been dating the most amazing guy for 6 months. He is wonderful kind, and we are madly in love. However during my previous relasionships ex boyfriends were unfaithful to me on more than one occation. I've come to terms with the p...

I really love my best friend but she is going out with one of my best friends... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5986 days ago

23 June 2008 (M) - I love my best friend but she is going out with one of my good m8's for the past year and a half ,and i have loved her for 4 years now! And i can't tell her how i feel or it could ruin our friendship. He has lost intrest in her and she kinda knows ...

I have a boyfriend, but still really like this guy from my childhood

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - I currently have a boyfriend but I am still in love with a childhood friend ( my brothers good friend)who i liked since i was 11.I am now 25 years old. he confessed that he shares the same feelings for me, since we were in highschool 2 years ago ...

The girl my mate likes likes me. And I like her too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5986 days ago

23 June 2008 (M) - I have some problems and i dont no what to do. You see my bestfriend kept talking about this girl he likes so one day he took me to met her and she was nice. We all had a laugh so we decided to carry on going out as a kind of group. The problem is ...

He used to like me then it all stopped. He's now dating someone else...can I do anything to get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5986 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - Okay. i like this guy Tom. and we used to like each other alot. HE was going to ask me out but something happened we just stopped talking, and he started going out with another girl. and i think im in love with him. Everytime im with him i get all ...

I don't love him anymore...how do I get this through to him without hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - Well...Where to start! I have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, we are both 16. We haven't had sex, and he really respects me, he is really good looking and in all aspects he is perfect. We used to have such a laugh together...

My question is does he like her or me?

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23 June 2008 (F) - My friend comes up to the job on her day off wearing tight or revealing clothes when my ex crush works,she even walks around until another male employee sees her body and tells everyone else.So my ex crush sees her and says WOW and then looks at ...

My sex life lacks passion, should I stay with my BF that I DO love or keep in contact with the other man who made me feel so special...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - I went away for the weekend with a group of friends to Ireland. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years, who I love very much. Our sex life hasn't been very good for the last 1.5 years, he doesn't initiate things very often and only makes an ...

He left me for this woman a while ago, now we are back together and I don't know how to deal with their friendship!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - I do not know how to deal or if I can deal with my boyfriend's frienship with an ex. I left my husband for him 4 years ago as we had an affair and I really do love him otherwise I wouldn't have gotten divorced. I feel that he is my soulmate. We were ...

Will he dump me for her even though he says he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - hey Ive been with my bf for over 3 months now but i allways feel he deserves better. Im nothing but a nightmare. And when he told me he fancies this girl i know, its made me feel so awkward because i know shes alot more worthwhile than me. I just f...

Does he like me and how do I get rid of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

23 June 2008 (F) - ok i enjoy going out clubbing but guys always flirt and try to pick me up and i have a bf of almost 2 years. i was very dunk 1 night and met a really nice guy who i explained that i had a bf but he just kept me company while my friends were dancing. ...

I've gotten involved with a co-worker, but she is married. I've fallen for her but this is getting nowhere!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

22 June 2008 (M) - I've got into a really difficult situation. I've got involved with a woman I work with, but she's married. She says that she feels she's found someone she can spend the rest of her life with and I feel the same about her. But she's said she w...

My boyfriends ex gf is always around!! Should I ask him to cut ties with her or tell her to back off??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

22 June 2008 (F) - i need help!! please! my bf's ex gf is constantly in my life. we tried to be friends but she then decided twice to go after him. she always talks about him telling everyone she loves him and soon he will be back with her. we have mutual friends who ...

My boyfriend's best friend is trying to put my boyfriend off me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5987 days ago

22 June 2008 (F) - Im seeing a guy who I really like. The only problem is his best friend. We really dont get on and never have. I knew him before I met my boyfriend we have know each other for years. I could quite happily be civil to him but he has to badmouth me to ...

I have a boyfriend, but I'm in love with a married man... I know it's wrong, how do I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

22 June 2008 (F) - hi. i have multiple questions that may not make sense for me to ask but please i prefered answered by you. i am in a relationship with this single guy for almost two years now. he says he loves me but i just dont feel it in his words nor action.N...

New girl is trying to split me and my friend up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5988 days ago

21 June 2008 (F) - Hi Guys, I'm not being bullied, but my best friend has made friends with this girl in our class, and I like her, and we've been going as a little treesome these past few weeks, it just she seems to think it's funny to get my friend to run of...

What my man doesn't know won't hurt him or am I walking in quick sand?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5985 days ago

21 June 2008 (F) - Hi. I got a bf, i do love him very much but we stay away from each other and only get to see once in two weeks when he comes home. Now this guy around my area is proposing me. He seems good and loving and wouldn't do things to force me in anyway. ...

My girlfriend became friends with my best friend and now he is hitting on her!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5972 days ago

21 June 2008 (M) - So, my girlfriend and I have been dating for four years. I am 22 and she is almost 23. Our relationship started out as a long distance relationship (me in MD and her in NY). I met her at my brothers wedding, as she is my sister in laws cousin. ...

I moved in with my lover and I think I should talk to his wife to tell her my side of the story... should I?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

20 June 2008 (F) - i was having an affair with a married man for about 2 years. we were gonna move in together but then he said that he wanted to work on things with his wife and left me. not even a month later, he begged me to take him back, a few months after that i ...

Rediscovered each other, but we both have partners. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5989 days ago

20 June 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been seeing some one who I have been in love with for years but we had only just discovered each other again. He felt the same but we always managed to miss each other through life. It has been going on for 4 months but the pain of ...

In love with my best friend - But he has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5953 days ago

20 June 2008 (F) - I have a major issue, and it's pretty deep so here we go. I'm in love with my best guy friend. The real problem is.....I'm 18 and he's just now getting ready to turn 17. I just graduated from high school and we still talk and hang out but it's...

Should I stay with my boyfriend and hope that my feelings develop a bit more or go back to my ex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

19 June 2008 (F) - So, I've been with my boyfriend for two and a half months now and he told me he's getting condoms and I'm in the runnings for birth control and neither of us have any problems with this. The issue IS: I just got out of another relationship just a ...

My wife has recently told me about her fantasies with another woman what do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5983 days ago

19 June 2008 (M) - I am married, my wife has recently told me about her fantasies with another woman, and she has been sexually active with her. We have a very honest marriage and I appreciate this. I said I don’t mind and still don’t the, hole thing turns me on and ...

Still in love with my ex after eleven years of marriage!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5991 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - i have been married for eleven years but i cannot stop thinking of my ex. i love the man i am married to, but at times he makes me think so much of my ex. i speak with my ex and i found out he is still dying to have me and the unfortunate thing is ...

I found pictures of my boyfriend and his ex on his phone... can I believe nothing has happened?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - Hiya, i found pictures of my boyfriend and his ex gf on his phone and messages from her. he has a son to her so i understand they need contact with eachother. he says nothing has happened between them but i dont know what to believe, can you help ...

To trust or not to trust..... when someone lies to you is it always a red flag or can it be a 1 time genuine mistake?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - Alright.... this post is simular to another one I have.... but I need to know how to go about regaining trust. I am in a relationship with a wonderful man but lately we hit a bumb and I can't seem to get over it. Here is the backstory.... Not lo...

I feel he loves me not my friend but she loves him and I don't want to lose either of them.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5991 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - i love my repeater in college and so does my friend, but i feel he loves me not her, i don't want to lose my friend or my love what can i do?...

Long-distance confusion... I feel like I'm settling for being second-best, should I walk away?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

18 June 2008 (M) - I met this woman almost a year ago thru work. We live in diff countries. She came to visit here in the US and stayed for a week. Amazing sex, conversation, etc, we got along fantastic. She came to visit for 2 more weeks and another amazing visit. ...

Should I let go or should I hold on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

18 June 2008 (F) - I was with someone 3 years ago, the relationship went "open-ended" when he decided to pursue his career elsewhere. We agreed to remain friends although we seldomly contact each other since. He came back after a year and when I saw him, I realized I ...