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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Is he worth being with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6160 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - Hi, well earlier on today I had sent a message about how the father of my baby had proposed to me but I didn't know what to do or say whether YES or NO because of what he has done to me in the past. Well anyways in the morning I was cleaning...

My heart tells me it will be fine and there is no need to upset our 11 year old by kicking his daddy out, despite of his affair and his soon-to-arrive child. Any insight, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - A few months ago I found out that my husband was having an affair. I was devastated, as is natural. He decided however that he was going to break it off with her and make it work with me and our son. About a month ago (2 or 3 months after they ...

Problems with her ex bf--he keeps contacting her and I don't like it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6162 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - I have been in my present relationship for a period of about 2 and half years. All is fine, we live together and in nearly all areas of our relationship we get on well, except one! Before we meet she had split with a guy 3 months previously who, she ...

Is this weird or is it just me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - Have been in an "emotional" relationship with a younger man for almost a year now (younger by 5 years. I am a married woman, he has had a girlfriend. We have been working up to finally leading to something sexual. So here's the confusing part...he ...

How do I ask her to decide and not jepordise future positive experiences??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

30 December 2007 (M) - To cut a long story short, I've completely and utterly fallen for a girl during my first term at University. I am led to believe that my feelings are reciprocated - we've had wonderful times together doing things that match our many common ...

Who thinks I am being played for a fool??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Hello all. Here goes: I'm a 37 year-old woman who's been dating a "separated" man (he's 41) for 8 months now. He has 2 minor children (ages 5 and 7) and has been married for 8 years. He lives alone. She lives w/another man. I know it sounds i...

Torn between two brilliant online girls who I both care for but I know I have to pick one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - I have met two incredible girls online and have met one of them but with the one i haven't met yet we have already arranged to go away in March for her birthday. I am having to talk to the one i haven't met yet online because i am currently on ...

Do you think that he is taking time out to think now that Christmas is over or he has already made a choice? Is it maybe a mid-life crisis?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Hi, please help. My partner/fiance left our home 2 months ago after 5 years for a reason i did not know. I saw him last sunday and he told me that the reason he left was because he had met someone else. When i asked him he told me it was a 26 year ...

I'm seeing a guy at my office and we are in love, only that we are now both cheating on our partners. I want out of this mess now, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a boy friend, we have been together for the past two years. But 4 months earlier I mate this guy at my office and start go out together. he also has a 5 years relationship. Right now we are totally in love but the problem is we ar...

He broke up with me and I was devastated. I started dating another guy and now my ex tells me I threw him away when seeing this other guy and now I feel all confused and messed up, what shall I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me and told me that he wants us to remain to be just friends. he broke up with me about 3 weeks ago. we dated for about 4 weeks. throughtout the time we dated he told me that he likes me alot. we were friends for a ...

How do I refrain from reminding her all the time of her infidelities, as I do want to continue together for the children's sake but it's hard to bury the past?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - i have been with my partner for 11 years, and she has cheated on me three times,the last one was the worst cos it was with my best mate,i love her to bits,but every time we argue i always bring it up i dont mean to but it happens,how can i get it ...

My bf stays until late at his best friend's house and he ignores me when she is around. I heard her saying she loves him. Ideas?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6161 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend stays at his best friends house until like 3 a.m. and hes always ignoring me when hes around her. Its like when she around i dont exist. I cant stand him hanging around her 24-7. She one time said i love you baby to him and boy i filled ...

He lied to me so I broke up but I still love him, how can I forget him and move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6164 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Hi all, i really need some advice i am so confused. 3 month ago my boyfriend sent a flattering messageto a girl(saying how no1 can be as beautiful as her). He sent it to me by mistake. We broke up. He said it was a girl in work, even told me where ...

How do I get over my ex so it won't bother my new relation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6164 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - me and my ex (warren) have benn broke up for about 2 monthes and im back with my boyfriend (cody) me and cody have been goin out off and on for 4 1/2 yrs. but i cant get over my ex and it really bothers me and cody. warren (my ex) just told me a few ...

I really like this guy, he has a girlfriend but I don't think he likes her very much. I want to be with him, what can I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6126 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Hey guys i really need some help, im 19 years old and have hada lot of shit in my life.last year was my first year in college and towards the end of the year i realised i had feelings for my housemate, a guy ive known for seven years and never ...

My boyfriend has been cheating and now possibly has 2 other children beside our son. I'm really tired and confused now, how do I work this out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5831 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Ok so my boyfriend and I have been on and off for alittle over 4 years. We've both cheated and forgave each other and I thought we moved on but a few months ago we moved out of town together and he cheated. Then I found out that he may have two ...

He flirted with me throughout the night and then told me he has a girlfriend since 2,5 years!! How can I get him off my mind??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - ok i went to this party and immediately saw him! we locked eyes it was magical. he talke to me throughout the night he kept hugging me and i felt so good! this boy had me blushing. And then he told me about his girlfriend...of two and ...

I'm attracted to my colleague, what can I do to stop the feelings that I have towards him and keep our relationship strictly professional?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I am currently a young, free and single female. I work in a job where I am paired up with one person at a time for long periods, ie 6 moths or often longer at a time. I have always had good relationships with my colleagues but for the past four ...

I'm seriously attracted to a married, female co-worker and she is constantly wanting my attention, how do I handle this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

28 December 2007 (M) - I've got a huge problem. I find myself seriously attracted to a married,female co-worker. To say she is the woman of my dreams is an understatement. It would also appear that she has feelings for me. I am trying to do the right thing and just be her ...

My boyfriend drinks and can't stay away from other women from his past, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6162 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is 12 years younger than me, we have been living together for a year. One of the issues that I have with him is that he drinks every day. When he drinks, he says mean things to me and we fight. Another thing is that that since th...

I've made her feel like I don't trust her. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6165 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - Hi hope i can get some other peoples perspective on this ,i have been going out with my girlfriend for 1 year most of the time things are brillant we spend a lot of time together have a lot of fun ,have a lot in common and love each others company, ...

Things are so complicated. Somebody help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6165 days ago

27 December 2007 (?) - right you wont belive the mess im in, bassically im 19 years old, jus come out of a pretty destructive relationship, ive known this girl for 4 years, we dated when we were younger although it wasnt very serious, she was besotted with me, but being a ...

I just can't find a way out! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I was friends this older man and all i wanted a frienship, but somehow it lead to being more than just that. He wanted more but i did not because of the age difference. Later in the last year I ended the relationship and continue the friendship. In ...

She wants sex with me, and her friend...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6163 days ago

27 December 2007 (M) - hey ppl! i need some help here!! okay so i just broke up with my ex gf that i have dated for 3 years, we remain good friends and we have a mutual agreement that we can still have sex with each other even if we are seeing someone else..but since we ...

A younger lady is doing everything possible to ruin my happy home, even calling ME. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - i have been married for almost 6yrs now. it has been a very happy one, blessed with two boys. recently, my hubby met a younger lady of about 21yrs. i know my hubby loves me, but this younger lady is doing everything possible to ruin my happy home. ...

So many questions - anyone got any answers?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, So i've got myself in a real pickle. I've recently broke up with my ex girlfriend of 18 months. She cheated on me once in january, and then she was so amazing to me we got back together. She then went to uni, and i moved to italy f...

I'm leaving my husband because he had a 2 yr affair with my sister, a long time ago. People don't know the true reason and incriminate me for the break up. Should I forgive him instead?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I've been married for 18 years, no kids. Ten years ago, I found out that my sister and husband had had sex, once. I forgave them.... and none of us talked about it again. It was very painful as I had no one to talk to about it at the time... ...

I found out my bf has another gf since 2 years and now I'm all confused, what shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6166 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - i really dont know what to do.. i suppose you could call me a total bitch an slut for what i'm doing, and i am actually starting to feel like one...but im worried. I've been seeing a guy who already has a girlfriend. I have done for 3 months now...

How to control an obsession and depression due to a forbidden love? Does any one understand what I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - I am married, total time together 10 years. We have a beautiful and sweet 9 months old daughter. Unfortunately, right after stoping the pills to get pregnant I fell madly in love with a younger guy from work, it was 2 years ago. We never touched. ...

I love him but he loves his ex, do I wait for him to get over her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6127 days ago

26 December 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now. Having been out of the dating scene for 9 years and being a mother this time around, seems to complicate things a bit. My real question at this time hinges on the fact that he ...

Should I tell my forbidden love how I feel??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6160 days ago

24 December 2007 (M) - I'm a 17(soon to be 18)year old guy and i'm in love with a 16 year old girl i have been in love with her for three years not a day has gone by that i havent thought about her i have recently been talking to her through the computer and she has a bf ...

L really like him but I th9ink he just sees me as a hook-up friend and likes her more as a gf.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6167 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Okay i have this friend/ex boyfriend were just friends right now, but it seems that he's always like wanting to hook up or something, but theres this other girl they recently just broke up and he told me that they were done. But i'm not so sure ...

What should I do about the attached older guy that flirts with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6164 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - There is this guy who flirts with me but has a girlfriend and is older than me by 3 years. Help!!!! What should i do ?...

My ex took my virginity and would like to have sex again but now he has a gf.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - When me and my ex were together 6 months ago we had sex for the first time. Since then we hardly talk execpt on the phone. He says he loves me and wants to have sex again. I don't whether to or not? I don't want him to think i'm a whore and i no...

I thought he was with his brother at football but he was really with his ex and I am in a world of hurt.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - Please help! Im in a world of hurt. I was with my boyfriend for 6years,i broke up with him because he treated me bad.We split for a year and he dated someone else,but it didnt work. In the last 2 months we have got back together and things have ...

We met on holiday and became close friends...but now she is someone else and I can't let go.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6158 days ago

24 December 2007 (M) - Theres this girl that i met on holiday like in 2001 and we have been going to the same place and meting up each year and we are now close friends we also have met up a coupel of times this year (not on holiday ). I happen to have major fellings...

Although I love her, I ended our affair (because she didn't respect my ultimatum to leave her long term bf.) Did I make the right decision? I think she was just considering me as first choice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6168 days ago

23 December 2007 (M) - Hello guys, keep beating myself up about this so hope you can all help. I had an affair with a gorgeous girl who i fell for big time, we get on so well, sex is amazing probably because its forbidden fruit etc and we share a deep bond and amazing...

I'm afraid of rejection. he thinks we're just friends. What should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6154 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - Hi Everyone, I have a bit of a problem at the mo... Theres this boy ive been really into for about 6 months now, ive told him how i feel but he thinks that i dont think the same anymore "just friends" but i really do. he's into this other...

My ex's new girlfriend is all over my new boyfriend, she flirts with him in front of my ex, and I'm starting to have feelings back for him, anything I can do without ruining our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6168 days ago

23 December 2007 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend were going on 2 years, he broke up with me, and got back together with his ex. I got together with his close friend...for a very short while. I started falling for his friend, but now my ex's new girlfriend is all over my new ...

He broke up with me because I did not sleep with him. Then he met another girl who got pregnant and married her. Now, 7 months later he called me to say he misses me, what is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6169 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - Hiya, i am 21 and have a problem . I met a guy when i was 15 and was seeing him since for the last 4 years. He left me when i was 19 because i did notr sleep with him due to religious reasons. He then slept with someone else...realised that he is ...

How can I compete with my 'cute' friend??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - We are a group of three friends...2 guys 1 girl...problem i like this girl, my friend(other guy) knows it...we all hang out a lot...i like it when i am with her only because she notices me....but when we are all three together...it just seems she ...

Help with emotional issues and complicated relationship. I don't know what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6170 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - I have been in love with a girl at my school for my entire High School carrer and im in my last year and i was with her off and on this last year. Because she wont stay away from her user and abusive boyfriend who has never had a job and for the ...

My neighbour's husband suggested me to have sex with his wife. My wife may be suspicious. Do I tell her or stay away?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - Hi over the past few month my neighbour has been giving me the come on with thing she dones. eg flashing and making sagestive conversation. last weekend i was helping her husband with a job in the garden. she was there and flashed her boobs severa...

My wife's sister is giving me wibes she wants me to initiate something, and since I'm in love with her and not my wife I would really like to, so why do I keep blowing my opportunities every time I get the chance??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

22 December 2007 (M) - i am an unhappily married man wanting very badly to have an affair with my wife's sister...but i keep blowing the opportunites that i am getting. i am feeling very regretful and angry. i know she wants me to initiate somthing, but every time i get ...

I love her but she is going out with someone else, what do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6170 days ago

21 December 2007 (M) - Okay, were both 16 and i love her and try to give her the signs but she is going out with someone else, what do i do? please help! Thanks!...

My bf's female friend is causing big problems for us...any advice on how to deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6171 days ago

21 December 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months and he has never lied or hurt me but when he started a new job there was this girl who asked him to go out for a drink with him and he went as just friends, he said before he went this is wrong but then ...

My gf talks to her ex by phone several times a day and sees him on a weekly basis. She also maintains friendship with other ex'es. Is this acceptable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5537 days ago

21 December 2007 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for about 8 months and we get along very well. We both love each other and talk about moving in together. I am experiencing some problems with my girlfriend and her friendships with her ex boyfriends. She has had ...

I like a girl at school, but I barely talk to her. Also, she has a boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5805 days ago

20 December 2007 (M) - There is this girl at my shool that I like...i talk to her but bearly, Porbably the reason I liek her is becasue she noticed me...by that i mean one time she saw me at the park and told me the next day at school...this was when we didnt knwo each ...

I broke up with him. Now I've realized he's who I'm looking for, but he has a girlfriend now and doesn't want to hurt her. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6171 days ago

20 December 2007 (F) - So I was dating this guy who was basically everything i wanted some flaws here and there nothing big i started to like his friend and broke up with him we recently talked and i realized he can give me what i want. He says he likes me but he has a ...

My step brother and I are having sex! what should I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

20 December 2007 (F) - im Annabelle and im 14. about 3 nights ago my brother (jayden) and i were home alone and he got me drunk. i remember him getting into bed with me. jayden is 16. he started touching me and then kissing me, but because stupidly i was drunk i kissed ...