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writes:Theres this girl that i met on holiday like in 2001 and we have been going to the same place and meting up each year and we are now close friends we also have met up a coupel of times this year (not on holiday ).I happen to have major fellings for her and love her more then ive ever loved a person.She is now with someone els and i have told her how i feel and she said that yes she once had feelings for me as well but shes with someone now but i cant let her go.On a number of occasions I have sat at home and cryed because im not with her.So if anyone has any advice or is in the same shoes as me and can help, please do thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2008): i have recently gone throught a similar situation the best advice i can give you is have a good think about everything about her one night. think of all the things you have ever done together and so on. it may sound strange now but it really helps to get over them! try to stay in touch in some way it will help. if or when you meet up again, see if you still feel anything for her, if you do then go with your heart you never know she may feel the same way.
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reader, nikkij +, writes (25 December 2007):
 I met a guy on holiday once and became involved with him deeply...recently he started seeing someone else...it was very difficult and still is....I caught myself crying last night actually. The best advice I can give you is try not to focus on it even though I know that is very difficult...learn what life is like without her...wake up everyone morning and remind yourself to breath...eventually you don't have to remind yourself and you learn to cope...hopefully you'll be able to move on, but just give it time for now.
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