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writes:So I was dating this guy who was basically everything i wanted some flaws here and there nothing big i started to like his friend and broke up with him we recently talked and i realized he can give me what i want. He says he likes me but he has a new girfriend and he doesnt want to hurt her. What should i do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2007): First of all you were not certian about this person that is why you broke up with him. If you did really love him you wouldn't have broken up with him. You wanted to find someone better but you couldn't. so even if you go back with him there are chances that you will break up again. But i think he has made a decision to live without you by getting new girl friend. So just live him alone. It is not nice to be greedy and to hurt someone whom you even do not know. He has more chances to be successful couple with this new girl than you so please do not be obssesed live him alone. Esayas
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reader, chlez83  +, writes (21 December 2007):
Well you've done what is expected of you,ask him back and he's told you his situation so there's nothing more you can do.You can't force him to love you.I'm about to break up with my girl and i have a feeling she'll be in your situation soon.
Just move on and try to think less of him.Reduce contact with him.I know it's easier said than done but really you can't turn back the hands of time.
Good luck.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (21 December 2007):
 Move on.
He doesn't want you anymore. And then, his going back to you would be unfair for his girlfriend. Sorry to say this, but now you are "the other girl".
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