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female
age
30-35,
*achiee
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 15 months and he has never lied or hurt me but when he started a new job there was this girl who asked him to go out for a drink with him and he went as just friends, he said before he went this is wrong but then after he said he can go out with a mate and i cant stop him, after that he wos going out with her every week and they where always texting and rigning each other, every time i ring him hes on the phone to her and when im with him they are always texting each other, the thing is my boyfriend is 17 and this girl is 21. The thing is when my boyfriend first started goin for drinks with her she told him she really really likes him but when i questioned her about that she said she didnt say it. she tryed to get me to trust her and she was getting in my head and trying to make me lie to my boyfriend, since hes been going out with her and txing and ringing her hes been lieng to me and we have split up 4 times in one month where the other 13 months we have never split up. yet he says he will not get rid of her because shes a mate but shes breakin up our love and i know shes bad because shes a lier and she takes cocane! what can i do to get him to realise that he cant be puting her, a girl he has known about a month infront of his girlfriend of 15 months?
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reader, rcn  +, writes (22 December 2007):
 You can't get him to see that, because everyone has the right to make their own choices. You have the right to make yours as well and demand how you are to be treated. If he's lying to you, he's not someone who's really caring toward your needs and feelings. You deserve better than the way he's treating you, but it's up to you to stand up for that right.
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