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writes:I'm a 17(soon to be 18)year old guy and i'm in love with a 16 year old girl i have been in love with her for three years not a day has gone by that i havent thought about her i have recently been talking to her through the computer and she has a bf and 2 kids Should i tell her how i feel or just remain her friend?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): There isn't much of an age difference but ask yourself this question. Could you see yourself taking care of her two kids? Be serious about this question because your both still kids and the fact that she has two kids at 16 is not a very good sign. Don't get involved in a situation you might wish you could get out of. You have your whole future ahead of you to think about.
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reader, Hans +, writes (30 December 2007):
16 + 2 kids = run for the hills.
There is something profoundly wrong when a girl that age has more than one child. An accidental pregnancy at a young age is forgivable, and not by itself indicative of having a poor character. In fact the choice to be responsible and raise the child can be indicative of very good qualities. One kid can be written off as an "oops!" Having more than one kid at that age starts to look pathological. It indicates a repeated tendency to make bad decisions. That is not something you want to get mixed up with.
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reader, truly_unique  +, writes (26 December 2007):
i agree
telling her is the bet option..but give her choices. ask her how she feels about it. if you tell her you need to be able to take the fact that she may not feel comfortable with you anymore
good luck
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reader, muffy +, writes (25 December 2007):
 well, tell her how you feel.then yer options will be open.if you dont get what that means,it means then if her and her boyfriend break up,then she knows that you like her and she could go to you.make sure you let her know that yer a nice person and you can help support her kids.i hope i helpedlove and kissesfeel free to message me if you ever need anthing
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