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writes:ok i went to this party and immediately saw him!we locked eyes it was magical.he talke to me throughout the night he kept hugging me and i felt so good! this boy had me blushing.And then he told me about his girlfriend...of two and a half years!and then i met her and she is an angel! the sweetest girl in the world. ive heard from many that he has a knack for flirting with other girls at partys.i cant seem to stop thinking about him even though i know i shouldnt! and i couldnt pursue him when i got on so well with his girlfriend. i couldnt do that to herso why do i keep thinking about him??how can i get him off my mind??
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reader, fifi the1st  +, writes (28 December 2007):
heya. i think you really should try your best and forget him. This might help. Put yourself in his girlfriends shoes. How would you feel if somebody told you he was flirting with other girls at parties?? Not too good I hope. Then realise that you can do much better because if you were with him he'd probably do the same to you. If you want to end up hurt then go ahead but I think its best to stay away.Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007): The way to get him off your mind is to imagine he is actually your boyfriend... really get in the idea of it. Imagine he comes home and says he is off to a party that night with some of his mates. You're left to stay at home and watch rubbish TV. Now - how are you feeling? If this is the way he behaves towards a really lovely girl who he has been with for 2 and a half years then my guess is he ain't worth another minute of your energy. If you want a boyfriend that plays with peoples emotions and leaves the people he has close relationships with devoid of commitment then go right ahead and dream away. It sounds more like a nightmare to me.
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