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writes:Dear Cupid,I have a boy friend, we have been together for the past two years. But 4 months earlier I mate this guy at my office and start go out together. he also has a 5 years relationship. Right now we are totally in love but the problem is we are still cheating on our partners and recently his girlfriend got pregnent and we both don't know what to do anymore. So I finaly decided to get out of this mess but still couldn't figure out how. But I'm in love with him desperately.Please tell me what to doMabi Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): Kinda cheeky that he was sleeping with you and her at the same time dont you think? and I guess unprotected if she is now pregnant.
Well my ex cheated on me with a work collegue whilst I was pregnant with our third child and she was in the middle of a divorce. They are still together now. So maybe it could work. ALOT of people were hurt in the process including our oldest boy who was 4. But THEY seem happy so I guess that's all that matter to them (and people that cheat). Guess you just have to be selfish and give it a go or you will never know. May be trust issues in the end though.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2007): You should get out of it as soon as possible and see where it goes from there. If he doesn't react to your leaving then it is really time for you to get your own man.
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reader, PrincessHelp!  +, writes (29 December 2007):
 Hi Mabi,My God That Is One Big Situation Both You And Him Need To Decided What You Want To Do, Go With Your Heart Not Your Mind Some People May Get Hurt On The Way But Either Way Someone Is Going To be Hurt So Just Go With Your Heart!PrincessHelp!xx
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