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*aranz
writes:hey ppl! i need some help here!! okay so i just broke up with my ex gf that i have dated for 3 years, we remain good friends and we have a mutual agreement that we can still have sex with each other even if we are seeing someone else..but since we were highschool lovers, so we only had sex with each other( she was my first and i was her first time)..so we are having a little bit of trouble to get over each other which is when she told me to have sex with one of her friend, just to see what's it like to be with a different girl and maybe that would help me to get over her sort of...and she also wants to have sex with another guy...she wants to seduce my guy friend into sleeping with her..the deal is that, the sex with another friend has to be only one time and nothing else..so im just wondering now if that's a good idea? and she also wants me to record or show it on webcam to her that i am having sex with her friend...im just not sure if i should proceed..what do i do? female readers pls help me!!
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reader, garanz +, writes (30 December 2007):
garanz is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok thanx you guys, i have talked to her about the whole issue telling her im not comfortable with the idea of being on the cam and stuff, which is why she came up with a new idea...now she wants to be there when i have sex with her friend, more like a threesome? or she said we should have a group sex like invite my guy friend so he can have sex with my ex whilst i have sex with her friend in the same room.according to her, she said this would help us in many ways, which i am not too sure how...but she said she wants me to be happy and enjoy myself when i have sex with her friend...i find it a turn on to be in the same room to see my ex having sex with another guy whilst i have sex with another girl, i have to be honest that i am tempted to try this, do you guys think i should just have fun and enjoy it? my trouble is that im worried once she starts having sex with another guy, she would just start having more casual sex, i still do love her even though we are not together, i still want to have one-to-one sex with her alone...pls help me out! i am not sure of what to do...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2007): My first reaction is that this is a really weird set-up, and my gut reaction is that your 'ex' just want to have sex with your friend, and to even things up is saying you can have sex with her friend.
You've just broke up with her and by mutual agreement you've now become friends with benefits. So the door hasn't completely closed behind you, so to speak.
She now wants you to have sex with her friend, just the once - to help you get over her she says - and she wants to do the same thing with one of your friends.
Then comes the webcam bit. That's really weird. If I were you I'd suspect that there's something going on that you don't know about, maybe a sort of blackmail plot or something.
Has she asked permission from her friend for you to have sex with her and record the event on a webcam? How do you know her friend isn't in on any plot? What right does your ex have to say you can only do it the once? What if you and her friend were to hit it off? It wouldn't stop at one-time sex.
As you're sort of broke up, whoever either you wish to have a relationship with is no real concern of the other. I'd say definitely steer clear of the webcam unless you want to end up being broadcast on the internet, and it's up to you to do the choosing of who you wish to be with in the future.
Phil
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reader, truly_unique  +, writes (28 December 2007):
wow ok..
i think you should do whats right. you dont have to have sex with anyone if you dont want to. she cant force you..and if she tries tell her that you dont want to and walk away..its not worth your time. you should be with someone who only wants to sleep with you and who only wants you to sleep with them
g0od luck
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