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36-40,
*ageyz001
writes:I have met two incredible girls online and have met one of them but with the one i haven't met yet we have already arranged to go away in March for her birthday. I am having to talk to the one i haven't met yet online because i am currently on holiday abroad but with the one i haven't met we are already talking about our future like where were going to live how many kids we want and how long until she would like it to be untill i propose to her. I am crazy about both these girls but i dont know which one to pick or how to tell the one i havent chose that i dont want to see them anymore!! The reason i started to go out with two at the same time is because i thought that one of them wouldnt like me but both girls really like me and i really like them i dont want to hurt either of their feelings but i know that i have to pick one of them soon and that odviously meens hurting one of thier feelings. I really don't know what to do, please please help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2007): What ever happened to the dating process where people spend time together, getting to know each other, eventually deciding that they either would or would not like to become an exclusive couple?
Do you think you are thinking a little too far ahead at this stage? Don't promise these girls too much and then they will not be disappointed when these things don't materialise.
Take time and care to get to know people better before deciding to settle down. It's a long time to suffer if you settle down with someone you are not compatible with and it takes rather a while (in the same room as each other - not online)to discover if there's any chemistry and compatibility.
Best of luck X
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reader, hello1 +, writes (30 December 2007):
 Is this serious? this is online. You only met one online and you arranged a holiday with the other one!! Your a perfect reason you can't trust people online, your playing both of these girls.
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reader, elliebellie +, writes (30 December 2007):
hi hun!
ah this is a really complicated situation.
you have to sit down and ask yourself who you like better.
which girl have you talked most about future life with?
you will have to pick one of them.
think about which girl would be better for you.
you will have to decide and tell one of them your true feelings and then let the other one go.
i hope this helps.
feel free to mail me about anything else you want to talk about.
lol
ellie
xxx
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