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writes:When me and my ex were together 6 months ago we had sex for the first time. Since then we hardly talk execpt on the phone. He says he loves me and wants to have sex again. I don't whether to or not? I don't want him to think i'm a whore and i no it's illegal because i'm only 15 but i would love to do it again. I haven't slept with anyone except him and i don't think i could trust anyone in that way for a long time. I no it's wrong because he has a girl friend but... What should i do?
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (25 December 2007):
 This is one of the problems that comes up when you decide at too young an age to have sex.
Sure, it feels good and all but with that comes responsiblilty.
Someone your age is not ready emotionally, mentally, physically or financially to have children and believe me, all too often I have told this to girls your age and more often than not they come to me later and tell me how they wish they had listened to me.
All it takes is one mistake and the next thing you know you are a parent.
Why throw your childhood away for something you can wait a little longer for.
Remember, once your childhood is gone you can never, never get it back. Sex is something you can always look forward to.
So go be a kid while you still can. Doc
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reader, leonard j, Douglas  +, writes (25 December 2007):
Your B/F didn't take your virginity,you gave it away,and cheap at that,but then there are young fools and also old fools. And to continue to let him use your body makes you a much greater fool. You know what you need to do, so do it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): Males are alot more simple then what we think...
He has a girlfriend...because he wants her as his girlfriend..he also wants sex..and by saying "I love you" means he will get it..so he says it..I mean if all you had to do to get your dream car was say I love you a couple of times would you??
this is a young boy who, unfortunately for you sweetheart, has only one thing on his mind.
Dont be fooled by him. Find yourself a nice guy who will not only call you but see you as well! and one who wants YOU as his girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): All the guys will always say that to you. Keep that in mind. You gave him your virginity too easy too quick. Now he is going to push you to have sex and when you do it he is going to leave you again I promise. He's going to say that you knew he already had a girlfriend. If he is saying that to you is probably because his current girlfriend isn't having sex with him yet. Guys only want women for sex. That's why you have to build a relationship and prove every man you are worthy enough for them to wait until you get married. Don't have sex again without getting married. It may sound old fashioned but that's the only way men are going to respect you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2007): First off, this boy does not "love" you, he stopped talking to you after you gave him what he wanted, sex...boys are like that, they lose respect for a girl when she gives in to what he wants from her so easily...you are very young and it is not a great idea to be having sex at your young age for many reasons, the first being you could be hurt emotionally.
Also, google risk factors for cervical cancer...you will learn that for a girl having sex at a very young age even if she has only one partner and wears a condom is at a high risk of contracting HPV a virus that can cause cervical cancer....waiting to have sex until you are much older is not only a good idea, it is one that could save your life.
It is very easy for a boy to act as if he is in love with you just to have sex, it is easy for him to say he loves you, it is just a word after all, and he isn't doing anything to show his love, he has another girlfriend and he is willing to hurt the both of you by fooling around behind her back....he sounds pretty selfish to me.
I would not come near him for all the sex in the world if I were you.
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reader, nikandme +, writes (25 December 2007):
 well, if he has a girl friend and he still tell's you he love's you and want's to do it again.he is cheating on his girlfriend. that is very wrong. if he want's to leave her for you that is one thing. but behind her back is bad bad bad. i would never ever do enything like that to my girlfriend. if he has a girlf friend. and he is not going to break up with her. you should move on and find another boyfriend. it is wrong to cheat. and that is how it is.i dont meen to sound rude or enything.
hope i can help, good luck.
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