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I like a girl at school, but I barely talk to her. Also, she has a boyfriend. What should I do?

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Question - (20 December 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 21 December 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

There is this girl at my shool that I like...i talk to her but bearly, Porbably the reason I liek her is becasue she noticed me...by that i mean one time she saw me at the park and told me the next day at school...this was when we didnt knwo each other...but yeah...i get this feeling she has some feelings toward me but at the same time i can't tell if it is, or just her being frindly...she comes up to me and says high a lot of the time(we bearly know each other about two weeks max) once my friend caught her starring at me while we were standing whatching other people break dancing...this was his exact words " dude, you knwo that girl ****** you like, when we were standin watching the dance off, every time i looked up at her she couldnt stop starring at you"

so yeah it may seem like she feels somehting towads me but her is the thing...she has a boyfriend...they are aparently deeeply in love...but he goes to another school...but this girl is a nice girl...those nice innocent ones who really are innocent and are queit waht i am triyng to say she isnt the type of girl who plays with emotions or likes to be played with...so really i am lost...8/

I really don't know how she feels about me....8/

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008):

just tell her if he has been starring tell her how you feel then complement her and make shure the dude shes dating is not around if she likes you she will say it back and go dump her other boyfriend

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2008):

I have the same problem. Girls are so confusing. I like this girl, and I stare at her a lot, but I try not to let her know I'm interested. And then I get paranoid that someone told her I like her so idk if she likes me when she stares at me or if shes looking bc she knows or if she doesnt notice me at all. I've never said a word 2 her and its safe to say she mite not know i exist. idk wut 2 do, she doesnt have a bf anymore and i need help

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A male reader, leonard j, Douglas Philippines +, writes (21 December 2007):

Be nice and kind to her, them, but leave them alone

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2007):

Right here is what you have to do. If what you say is true it is likely she has got a feeling for you, every time you see her at school just give her a smile...let her know you are thinking about her. With time start conversation, make her laugh and smile, get to know her as a friend. Just be nice if she likes you the chances are that she will show it. You have to get her to have you on her mind, this will make it easier to talk to her. With time if you continue to engage in conversation it should go smoothly from there. The fact that she has a boyfriend is irrelevant, just keep innocent, let her choose you.

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A female reader, xapathyxrebornx United Kingdom +, writes (21 December 2007):

xapathyxrebornx agony auntHun i suggest you wait until her and her boyfriend finish

also if they ARE deepply in love and shes looking at you and 'having eyes' for someoen else should make you think

what if everything goes and well, you and her hit it off and after so many months she starts looking for some other guy hun?

gotta be careful of that

good luck x

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (21 December 2007):

Danielepew agony auntIf she has a boyfriend, she's off limits.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2007):

Wait. that's all wait. you will have to wait until they break up wen it happens a few days later (7 days max) and she may ask you out by then or ask her out and you'll know. Life is about taking risks try

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