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Archived questions from: May, 2005 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I feel like my sister is older, prettier and flirtier... and she's trying to get my guy's attention!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6929 days ago

31 May 2005 (?) - I really need some help! I'm 15 and have a really low self esteem. Most of that due to my older sister who is 19. She smaller, slimmer and a lot prettier. She can flirt with anyone and I always get people saying to me "is THAT your sister?". I'm ge...

My boyfriend cheated and lives with the other girl, but he tells me to "wait" for him. Say what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5938 days ago

30 May 2005 (?) - I'm so confused about my son father. He's 20 years old. He cheated on me and is now living with the girl but he still says he loves and wants to have sex with me and tells me to wait for that. He wants to be with me, but not right now....

Don't want to leave my son's dad, but I love someone else! What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6607 days ago

29 May 2005 (?) - I dont know what to do. I have a 14 month old with my partner but I am seeing someone else who I love. I can't leave my partner though because I need his support financially and to be a dad to his son. What shall I do?...

Is it a cultural difference, or was I imagining that he was attracted to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6759 days ago

28 May 2005 (?) - Yes. I know this is REALLY immature. But, anyway. I should say, straight up, that my parents are Israeli, I'm American born and raised, and I live in Canada. This guy is Canadian, and his parents are Pakistani. I mention this b/c my Asian friends ...

I worked up the courage to talk to her, but now I want her more than ever!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7141 days ago

27 May 2005 (?) - I have known a girl at College for both the years I have been there. She is a great person and sadly we didn't talk much, since I was always too shy and kept my social circle to virtually only male friends. Weeks ago I realised we were leaving ...

I took my boyfriend home to meet the family, and he snogged my sister!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7076 days ago

26 May 2005 (?) - I really need someone's advice....I brought home my boyfriend of about 3 months to my family and they all seemed to like him. My older sister has had a steady boyfriend of about 2 years and he was there too. Me and my partner get on really well and...

My g/f's friends convinced her that I didn't treat her right. Now those friends say someone else is better for her...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7148 days ago

26 May 2005 (?) - I am 23 and my ex is 19 and she broke up with me 3 weeks ago saying that I didn't show her that I wanted to be with her. Her friends keep telling her that she could find someone who would treat her much better than I do and I guess she is listening ...

He wants to be with me, but we're both afraid that his wife will make good on one of her threats!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7148 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - I need advice again. My best friend has now told his wife that he is in love with me. There was a terrible row over it of course. She asked me if I felt the same, and I told her I did. We never meant to hurt her. My friend has been unhappy for ...

My husband & I had problems and I found a lover. Now I can't choose between them...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6993 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - hi...I'm currently facing a dilemma. I've been married for 18 months after a 1 year relationship and I'm 22. Me and my husband moved to another country after few months to start up a life together in a different environment. I was feeling quite lo...

How can I tell my fiance that I don't want to marry him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6719 days ago

25 May 2005 (?) - I am engaged. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years but no longer love him, but can't find the heart to tell him it's over. Also I've met someone else who's in the army and I have feelings for him. He feels the same way. We've known each oth...

My husband is the kindest and sweetest man, but I can't stop thinking of someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7151 days ago

23 May 2005 (?) - I met this man before I married my husband. I felt like it was love at first sight, from the minute I saw him I have not stopped thinking about him. We met about 5 years ago and every day I think about him. I love my husband and nothing has ever...

My girl always brings her friend with her when we go out... Now I'm interested in the friend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7152 days ago

22 May 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm in quite a state at the moment because I am with a girl but she always comes out with her friend. This wouldn't be a bad thing if I didn't start having feelings for her friend... What can I do?...

Was I stupid for not picking up on the clues that he had a girlfriend already?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7152 days ago

21 May 2005 (?) - Last December, I started this job and almost immediately developed a crush on a coworker. I thought the feeling was reciprocated. The extent of our relationship was walking home together. A month goes by, and...nothing. I figured he hasn't asked me...

He keeps telling me that he'll break up with his boyfriend so we can be together... but I want to know where we stand!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7137 days ago

19 May 2005 (?) - I am 19, and a gay guy. I met a guy online, and we got on immediately. I knew he had a boyfriend, so we kept it friendly at first. After a while, he started coming over for drinks etc. And we grew to really like each other. After a few weeks, he ...

Would it be so bad to get this one man out of my system before I get married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7153 days ago

19 May 2005 (?) - Hi I am gettting married in August this year. My partner is my soul mate and best friend and I really do love him. We have a great future together. But, I have always fancied one of his best friends. There is a chemistry between us, and it came ...

I'm getting interested in him, but another woman loves him too...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7152 days ago

19 May 2005 (?) - I have known this guy for about 10 years, but just as aquaintances, not even friends. Recently, we have become quite good friends and have been speaking for about three hours each day. And I wouldn't say I've fallen for him, but its getting close. I ...

My male friend seems to be pursuing me... even though he has a girlfriend already!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7157 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I have a male friend who I get on very well with. A few months back when I first got to know him we had a cheeky snog. Unbeknown to me had a girlfriend. I was a bit annoyed but thought that it would be the end of it especially as I was going to uni. ...

If he loves me like he says he does, why can't my boyfriend stop calling his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6377 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - dear friend. I have been with my boyfriend nearly a year and a half. Not long I know, but my longest one yet. My boyfriend and his ex girlfriend text each other. He says he loves me and has no feelings for her, so why can't he just stop ringing ...

My wife can't seem to stay away from speed... or the guy she gets it from.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7157 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I have been together with Caroline for 12 years and married for 11. She is 41 and I am 43. Both us us knew it wasn't right to have children in previous relationships, but felt it was right for us and we have a 4 1/2 year old daughter. We'...

I just don't trust him any more. Is it time to let him go, or do we try to work it out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7157 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I have been dating this guy for 2 years. He was controlling, and for a while I thought I'd be the one breaking up with him. He came back home from college because he was homesick and then found an apartment, where he moved in, with his cousin. I...

I'm engaged to marry the father of my kids, but he doesn't thrill me like I wish he did!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7157 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I just got engaged to the father of my two children. Last year he went really strange and broke up with me while I was pregnant then I found out he had started seeing somebody else... It took him a year but he realised his mistakes and regrets them ...

Although I'm engaged, I want to ask someone from work to hang out. What do I do about my fiance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7157 days ago

18 May 2005 (?) - I am engaged to be married - I started this new job and I am VERY attracted to someone here that is single and we flirt back and forth often. I want to ask this person to hang out but I don't know what to do about my fiance. Please help! ...

In the beginning, we were great, but 2 months later he runs hot and cold!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7152 days ago

17 May 2005 (?) - I have this boyfriend who I have known for a long time, but we have only been together about 2 months. At the beginning of our relationship everything was literally perfect. He told me he loved me and that he would do anything in the world for me. ...

My still-married boyfriend says he doesn't have the time or money to file for divorce....

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

16 May 2005 (?) - I am currently in a relationship with a man that is still married. I have been waiting for 2 and a half years for him to file for a divorce but he keeps telling me that he does not have the money to hire a lawyer and he does not have time to go to ...

Our disagreement over whether to have a baby has made our marriage stale...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7152 days ago

16 May 2005 (?) - I have been married for nearly 3 years and my wife wants a baby. Intially I did, but now I am not so sure. The marriage has gone stale, we have become iritable with each other because I have said I don't want to have a baby yet. We are both 32. R...

It's hard to choose romantically between my distant boyfriend and one of my close friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7159 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I've got a dilemma. I'm 18 and gay. I've been with my boyfriend for a while now but he lives a long way away so I don't get to see him much except at weekends. I love him very much, but the trouble is I'm in love with one of my best friends too. ...

Catch 22. I won't change unless she'll marry me, but she won't marry me unless I change.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7152 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I have committed everything I can to the relationship that I am in. We are on a tight schedule because we both want kids and we want to start trying in Jan 2006. Given these and other constraints I want to get engaged. I have asked and been turned ...

The girl I want says she loves me, but she has a boyfriend who used to be my best mate...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7160 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I've never wrote to any websites before but I have a big problem that is really depressing me. There is a girl in my school that I love and she says that she loves me. Over the last two days we almost had sex, I was fine with this but she was not, ...

After she met her ex and had dinner with him, I don't feel I can trust her any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7152 days ago

15 May 2005 (?) - I have been with my g/f now for 1 year and 6 months but her ex won't leave her alone, and nor will she, texting saying he loves her. Anyway, a few moths ago she went to meet him behind my back, stayed with him 3 hours, had dinner. He brought her ...

I feel better when I'm with my work-buddy than when I'm with my boyfriend. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7152 days ago

14 May 2005 (?) - I recently started working at my new job. The first night on the job, I met this guy. Him and I totally hit it off and I had the greatest time ever with him. The thing is though, I have a boyfriend, who I love very much. Whenever I am with my work ...

My current partner and I aren't getting on very well... then along comes and ex who wants me back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7161 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I need some advice. I am a 41 yr old mother of 2 boys. I have been in a relationship for 6 years. We are not married. We have been fighting a lot and he doesn't get along too well with my youngest child. I am debating on staying with him or not. H...

He dumped me to go live with his baby's mother. Was I just used?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7161 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - I have been seeeing a guy called Mike for about 5 months now, but lately he wants to end the relationship and go back to his baby's mother, he has a two year old daughter with her. He says he doesn't want to hurt me but he misses his daughter...

I know I can't have her, because she already has a boyfriend, but we have something special...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7162 days ago

13 May 2005 (?) - What's Up Doc? Look I am a college student who came from the South Pacific to study in the US four years ago. When I finally had the chance to go back to visit my hometown down in the Pacific, I met this old friend of mine. We used to be c...

Everything looked great with the girl I want, but now she just wants us to be "friends"...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7165 days ago

9 May 2005 (?) - I really need help on this one, I'm kind of cut up and confused. There's a girl at work who I've longed for for ages and who openly admitted she was very attracted to me. A couple of weeks ago we finally kissed & I was made up - something clicked ...

An extra guest on our family vacation is causing difficulties for us. Should I just cancel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7163 days ago

9 May 2005 (?) - My husband invited our single female friend and her child to join us on our "family" vacation with my sister and her family. I cannot tell her they can't go without hurting her feelings. My sister is upset because they are going on our "family" ...

We've been planning on moving in together, but it's becoming more of a business transaction...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7152 days ago

9 May 2005 (?) - I was due to be moving in with my partner in January of this year but due to unforeseen circumstances it did not happen. My partner's brother separated from his wife and ended up living with my partner instead. Now that me and my partner are back...

Don't know whether to marry my "a-bit-boring" boyfriend, or not!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6338 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - I have been with boyfriend for over 5 years now and we are about to get married this year. We also have a place together. In the beginning I was truly in love with him and couldn't imagine my life without him, but as time went by I fell out of l...

Was I stupid to tell her to get back with her boyfriend, when we love each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7166 days ago

8 May 2005 (?) - Hello, please help!! right... Theres a girl that I am absolutely in love with, and she told me she feels the same! She has been going out with her boyfriend for nearly 2 years now, and last weekend she dumped him so that she could consider m...

I didn't get to enjoy our threesome... and now I can't stop thinking of the other guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7170 days ago

5 May 2005 (?) - I am married to a wonderful man. We wanted to spice up our love life so asked one of my husband's male work colleague to join us in a threesome. But after I gave him oral sex he backed out of the idea. Problem is, I want to take it further,...

Everything's going wrong and life feels so stressful!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 7166 days ago

4 May 2005 (?) - A few months ago my partner of nine years told me that he had feelings for another woman. Due to this I had to give up my job (she worked with us). Now my partner tells me he wants to be with me but I cannot let it go. He says it started due to m...

My wedding is looming, but I love someone else...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7166 days ago

4 May 2005 (?) - I'm due to get married soon but I'm in love with someone else. What do I do?...

The new man's exciting, but I feel guily 'cos I don't know how I feel any more about my long-term partner...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7171 days ago

4 May 2005 (?) - Hi, I'm 39 and in a relationship with a man for 10 years, not getting anywere at the moment, as he won't move in. I've just met another man and he turns me on! But I feel very guity and not sure what to do, as I don't know how I feel any more. ...

My boyfriend's son is keeping us apart... by sleeping in my place!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7169 days ago

4 May 2005 (?) - My boyfriend has a boy aged 9 from a previous relationship and I am starting to feel resentful towards him. I don't want to feel like that. But every time he comes to stay at our house he wants to sleep in my bed and I have to go and sleep in the ...

My ex slept with me then got engaged to another girl... What's going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7171 days ago

3 May 2005 (?) - I started a new job and I had worked there for 5 months and one of the guys I really liked asked me out. We then went out with each other for 6 months and he finished it with me over a silly wee fight about who was sleeping on what side of the bed....

First, my ex seems better than my new man. Then I change my mind. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7172 days ago

3 May 2005 (?) - I left my husband of 20 years for another man who I thought I loved. I like my new man's company, but he is lazy and has no money compared to my ex. My ex was very well off, and has drive and ambition to do well, where was my new man has none. I...

I might have waited too long to tell her about my feelings...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7174 days ago

1 May 2005 (?) - I've had feelings for this girl since I met her 2 years ago. She is my best friend and we do almost everything together. Because I thought she was uninterested I never made a move. She got together with this guy and a year and a half later, he has ...