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writes: I am engaged to be married - I started this new job and I am VERY attracted to someone here that is single and we flirt back and forth often. I want to ask this person to hang out but I don't know what to do about my fiance. Please help!
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (18 May 2005):
 Grow up first and foremost, stop being so selfish and think of your fiance. How would you feel if they were doing this to you? I think you need to face up to the situation that you are in and consider breaking it off with your fiance in as tactful way as possible. It is obvious that you are not committed to the relationship and that you need to be single again. While you are feeling this way, it isn't fair on your partner.Before you go any further with this person at work, think of your fiance and find ways to sort out that situation first. Don't try to combine the two, it will lead to heartache all round.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2005): First of all, decide which man is more important to you. PLEASE DO NOT marry this guy, then leave him. Marriage is not a game and neither is love. You either love your fiance, or you dont. You either want to be with your fiance or you dont.JD
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reader, rphillips +, writes (18 May 2005):
You are engaged. So that means that you are planning on spending the rest of your life with one person. No more "hanging out ie kissing, making out, sex" with anyone else. Right?You can't be engaged and date. The two don't go together. They are like oil and water. Maybe you have the jitters or cold feet. Maybe you are rushing into the engagement. If you really feel attracted to this person from work, then you need to talk to your fiance. And it is not going to be an easy conversation. Perhaps you can postpone the engagement or ask for some time from your fiancee. Good Luck!
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