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My g/f's friends convinced her that I didn't treat her right. Now those friends say someone else is better for her...

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Question - (26 May 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2005)
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I am 23 and my ex is 19 and she broke up with me 3 weeks ago saying that I didn't show her that I wanted to be with her. Her friends keep telling her that she could find someone who would treat her much better than I do and I guess she is listening to them. I guess I didn't show her enough attention, but that was not intentional. She said she needs a break to think about things over the summer.

I study in college in Chicago but I have come home to the U.K for the summer. I won't see her until she comes to visit in August and I don't know what to do.

Now another guy is interested in her and her friends have been telling him to tell her exactly what she wants to hear. I'm worried that this will affect her descision about me. I really love this girl and I really want her back. Is there anything i can do?

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A reader, wildblueroze +, writes (27 May 2005):

Be honest with her, but you know, if there is love there, she will come around, and if not, it wasnt ment to be. Give her the attention she says she needs

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A reader, alison +, writes (27 May 2005):

You will have to talk to this girl and show her how much you love her. Buy her some flowers when you see her and explain the situation. If she loves you she will listen but if she doesn't then don't waste your time and try to move on.

Make sure you dont try to blame her friends for the break up because they only did what they thought was best for her.

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