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writes: I just got engaged to the father of my two children. Last year he went really strange and broke up with me while I was pregnant then I found out he had started seeing somebody else... It took him a year but he realised his mistakes and regrets them every day and I have no doubt that I can trust him now! It was just that we got together when he was very young and he needed to live a bit!BUT after I gave birth to our second son I met somebody else, and had a ot of fun with him! I liked him a lot!But I broke up with him and got engaged to the father of the kids as he begged for me back.Now I still have feelings for "Peter", and while my fiance is away I still see peter. I can't seem to help myself. I get excited just by the mention of his name.I can't help but wonder if I am doing the right thing in marrying the father of the kids. Even tho I love him so much, he just doesn't really "do it for me" like Peter does!
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reader, rphillips +, writes (18 May 2005):
You can't marry someone when you are having an affair. Well, I guess technically you can, but you shouldn't! So here are your choices, call it off with Peter and marry the father of your children. OR choice number two have the affair with Peter and call of the wedding.Hot sex is great, but sometimes hot sex is just that hot sex. Passion fades over time.It wouldn't be fair to your fiancee to marry him and carry on the affair. But it wouldn't be fair to marry him just because he is the father of your children.I can't tell you what decision to make. But you do have to make one. Because you can't have your cake and eat it to. Trust me, it will end up biting you back!
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