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writes: I am married to a wonderful man. We wanted to spice up our love life so asked one of my husband's male work colleague to join us in a threesome. But after I gave him oral sex he backed out of the idea. Problem is, I want to take it further, even an affair behind hubby's back. But I don't know why I feel this way when I love my husband. What do I do? I've stopped all contact with other man but desperately want to see him.
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (6 May 2005):
 I think you need to spice up your love life and not by having an affair as this could lead to so much heartache.You may receive sexual satisfaction but at the cost of losing your husband.Do not have contact with this other man and put that occasion down to experience. It just highlights the need for you to add excitement to your marriage and you must work on this together.Sit down and reveal to each other what really turns you on. Try to recapture the passion you encountered when you were first together by acting out the fantasy that you have only just met. Book into a hotel and go separately to the location for sizzling sex. Read books together on the subject, watch movies together. Explore each others bodies as if you were doing it for the first time.The reason why you are considering an affair is because you don't feel sexually fulfilled but the best way to feel satisfied is with your husband, not someone else.Talk to your husband today and put the passion back into your marriage.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2005): You are doing the right thing by not having any contact. Enjoy the fantasies.
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