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writes: I am engaged. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years but no longer love him, but can't find the heart to tell him it's over. Also I've met someone else who's in the army and I have feelings for him. He feels the same way. We've known each other for about a year and a half. Can you help please
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2006): Girl, I have the same problem...I am in the same boat...I still love him though and I dont have another guy on the line, but I do want to kind of end the relationship..If I had the guts to do it right now i would...
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2005): It must be a difficult situation, but it will only get worse if you don't put an end to it. Meet your fiance and first of all let him know how much you care about him as a person, then tell him that you are having second thoughts about marriage, that it is a very important commitment and you want to be sure, and you no longer feel the same twards the commitment, you want to breat off the engagement, he will ask you if there is someone else, let him know that it has nothing to do with someone else, you are not ready to get married. You need to do this ASAPIf you no longer love this man, do not marry him, don't listen to no one giving you a guilt trip. Do not marry him ...
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reader, ourhearttoheart +, writes (26 May 2005):
Be stronger and wiser by "Being Honest"! Tell him your feelings so you can both move on with your lives....and next time, "Don't wait, until you have found somebody else. Never right to mess with anyone's feelings....yours or his!!!!
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reader, fechon +, writes (26 May 2005):
Tell him as soon as possible as a favor to him. Be honest, and let him deal with it.
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