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writes: I was due to be moving in with my partner in January of this year but due to unforeseen circumstances it did not happen. My partner's brother separated from his wife and ended up living with my partner instead. Now that me and my partner are back on track we have discussed me moving in with him as was originally planned. Problem is, I feel that our first home together should be just that something for us both to share and enjoy but my partner has made it more than clear that blood is thicker than water, so to speak, and his brother shall be staying on. Then we move onto the part where my name gets put on the mortgage. All of a sudden he wants to get the property revalued and take up his mortgage using any profit to pay off his debt and the rest to redecorate the property. I cannot help but feel slightly like I am getting conned somewhere along the line.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005): Do not move in until the brother moves out...it is just a bad plan...especially one that is recently seperated...If you feel like you are being conned, you probably are...Talk to a property lawyer BEFORE you sign anything, relationships come and go ...and if this one goes your name is still on a mortgage , that you still ahve to pay.
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