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First, my ex seems better than my new man. Then I change my mind. Help!

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Question - (3 May 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 May 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

I left my husband of 20 years for another man who I thought I loved. I like my new man's company, but he is lazy and has no money compared to my ex.

My ex was very well off, and has drive and ambition to do well, where was my new man has none.

I am also starting to find my new man unatractive to the point where even his voice get on my nerves.

He loves me deeply and wants me to marry him.

My ex of 20 years also still wants me back. We split 5 months ago.

I have known my new man for over 2 years.

I still love my ex but also love my new man, but my loves for the new man is slowly going, I feel.

My new man has a lovely family and good friends, my ex was unsociable and I was lonely with him.

But I do feel that I have not much of a future with this new man, although I am finding it impossble to give him up.

I want to sort this out, it's been going on so long now. I constantly compare everything my new man does to my ex.

How can I decide before it's too late?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2005):

Simple, Have both spend time together with you.GOOD LUCK!!!!!

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