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writes: I've had feelings for this girl since I met her 2 years ago. She is my best friend and we do almost everything together. Because I thought she was uninterested I never made a move. She got together with this guy and a year and a half later, he has proposed. I have recently told her how I feel and she says that she has feelings for me to but is confused. So do I let things happen naturally because I don't want to break them up or do I rush in and try to make things happen??
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (1 May 2005):
 I think in this situation, you have put the ball in her court and she has to decide what to do with it. If she is as confused as she says, then she shouldn't really be with this other guy but she has to make up her own mind.Continue to be friends with her but don't pressurise her. You have told her how you feel and you can do no more. Be there for her if she needs you and simply wait in the wings. This won't be easy but as she already knows how you feel, she has to find out for herself what she wants to do next.I hope you can both be friends despite this. It seems you play a large part in each others lives so try to continue this, hard though it may be.I wish you luck.
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