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writes: I'm due to get married soon but I'm in love with someone else. What do I do?
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reader, star3482 +, writes (9 May 2005):
DO NOT get married! theres no point and you will hurt your husband more when you start dragging him through a divorce.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2005): How long have you known each of these persons, the fiance and the lover? Then I may help you with your question.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2005): I think you need to talk to the person who you are going to get married to. Marriage is based on trust and you cannot marry if all the truth has not been spoken. Discuss things with your partner and think about whether you really love this other person or it is just nerves about the wedding. Whatever you do you can't get married with this looming over your head.
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reader, Chibble +, writes (5 May 2005):
hi, I think you need to decide if you are willing to give up a lifetime with your fiance for someone else. If you're in love with this someone else, tell them how you feel to see what they think, but then you need to decide if your fiance is worth giving up.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2005): Go with the one you love and dont f**k the other person about and mess up the best day of someone's life, if it all gets out or you decide to tell the day before or at the wedding...and why get divorced so soon after a wedding when you might not as well go through with it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2005): Aahh! Bit of a tricky one I think! You have to be honest with yourself before you say anything. Once you have done that then you have to be honest with your partner. Don't expect not to get hurt cos you think you are doing the right thing, cos it will but once you have made your decision, you must stick to it.
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