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writes: I have been married for nearly 3 years and my wife wants a baby. Intially I did, but now I am not so sure. The marriage has gone stale, we have become iritable with each other because I have said I don't want to have a baby yet. We are both 32. Recently however I have developed feelings for another woman who is 23 and have so much fun with her, it has developed into an affair. I have told her that I might leave my wife, although my lover ha not asked me to do this. Perhaps this affair is a way out of my marriage. I don't feel in love with my wife anymore and perhaps would rather be single, I have had these feelings before I even started the affair.What should I do? Stay in an increasing unhappy marriage or leave her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005): At 32 your wife has a clock tower in her head that goes off every hour on the hour...if she wants a child she will be getting down to business about it....which will be hard on the FUN part of things...and affair is not going to help a failing marriage...You need to sit down and talk to your wife about the MARRIAGE not the baby...if it is not fixable ...DO NOT bring a child into it.
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