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The new man's exciting, but I feel guily 'cos I don't know how I feel any more about my long-term partner...

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Question - (4 May 2005) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 May 2005)
A , *igbird writes:

Hi,

I'm 39 and in a relationship with a man for 10 years, not getting anywere at the moment, as he won't move in. I've just met another man and he turns me on! But I feel very guity and not sure what to do, as I don't know how I feel any more.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2005):

It would be a lie to assume that whomever we partner with in life would never find another person attractive or sexually stimulating.

Not acting upon that attraction is commitment...

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A reader, TJ +, writes (4 May 2005):

Your long term partner needs to wake up and smell the coffee. I'm assuming you're a decent woman so you need to ask yourself do you want to carry on being this person's comfortable pair of slippers or do you want to move on and have the excitement that you obviously crave so much?

Go on girl; you are still young and you deserve some excitement. If your partner is the one you want then maybe it's time to change things in your relationship and tell him it's excitement you want, you never know he may surprise you and say he wants the same things. Good luck ! from TJ

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