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writes: Hi, I'm in quite a state at the moment because I am with a girl but she always comes out with her friend. This wouldn't be a bad thing if I didn't start having feelings for her friend... What can I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005): woah, that seems a pretty bad situation. i think if i was in your shoes i would try and get the gf out on her own once in a while. the less u see her friend, the less u will think of her. at the end of the day the chances of th friend going against all friendship morales is very very unlikely. really its either you stay with the gf or you have neither of them! good luck
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reader, wwww.datinghaven.com +, writes (23 May 2005):
@HTH: Most girls wont stay loyal, same with men also, everyone are out for themselves and its always the best friends not normal friends that have this problem so i dont think loyalty exists for most people.Best friends should be alot more loyal then normal friends and can be trusted with your life. Shame you cant trust them with stealing your bf/gf :D
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reader, HappyTimeHarry +, writes (22 May 2005):
The Switch is the most difficult relationship maneuver in existence. You're probably struck, because it's nearly impossible to switch from a girl to her best friend. The only way is to break up with your gf, wait at least a few weeks or months, then try to hook up with her friend and hope she won't do what most girls do which would be to say no out of loyalty to her friend. If you are into freakiness, you could risk a kick to the groin and definite break up going for a menage trois. Very unlikely. If you must have her friend, I don't know what to say. Chances: slim to none.
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