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writes: I'm so confused about my son father. He's 20 years old. He cheated on me and is now living with the girl but he still says he loves and wants to have sex with me and tells me to wait for that. He wants to be with me, but not right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): O hell no dont ever go back with him his gonna keep on doing the same thing 2 just move on theres so many good men out there
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reader, Cutie_Mish +, writes (31 May 2005):
Never take second best. In any relationship you are the most important, so simply don't settle for second best!! Why should you be put in a queue for a guy that messes girls around and says he want to have sex!? Why does he tell you such pointless information! He's totally mocking you, maybe even expecting that your weakness is sex!I'm sure that you know what's right and whats wrong. you deserve much better! xXx
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reader, kt  +, writes (30 May 2005):
 Leave him, don't put you life on hold just for him. Find someone who treats you better. Don't let him take advantage of you!
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reader, star3482 +, writes (30 May 2005):
Get rid!!! Don't be a mug. He's treating you like a desperate fool and that's exactly how you'll look if you let him carry on! You deserve better!
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reader, schlottjl  +, writes (30 May 2005):
 I agree with Bev. Put it this way, would you dare to ask someone to do that for you? Why should you not have a line up of people to play with? Ah, that would be wrong and not very considerate to the playthings now would it. Don't let him make you cheap. You demand respect and you attract respectful people. If they can't pass the respect test they are not worthy! Women have very few years to find someone worthy of loving them. Never wait for fools. (And remind yourself that someone who puts any other female ahead of your is a fool!)
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (30 May 2005):
 Sorry, hon. This loser is feeding you a line. He thinks you should "wait for" him? Why? When he's out having sex with the girl he cheated with, he's not exactly saving himself for you, is he?What he's hoping to do is to keep two women on the hook at the same time, so that when he tires of one, he can go and have sex with the other. Hmm. While that might be a great deal for him, I can't see any way that it benefits YOU. And he's certainly not being a great role-model for your boy. So, walk away! You and your son deserve much, much better.Don't be confused. Your son's father doesn't care about you; he only cares about himself.Get rid.
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