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writes: I've never wrote to any websites before but I have a big problem that is really depressing me. There is a girl in my school that I love and she says that she loves me. Over the last two days we almost had sex, I was fine with this but she was not, as she has a boyfriend. The thing is that she was the one who started talking about having sex and I know she wants to. Her bf was my best friend a few months ago and he has fancied her for about 2 years. I no longer talk to him because I found out how manipulative he can be. He drove the 2 of us apart and then moved in on the girl I love. She even knows this. But she can't decide on which one of us she loves more. To make things worse I have exams coming up in about a week. I tried not talking to her, but either I end up calling her or she ends up talking to me. So, I know that staying away dosen't work. I have no idea on what to do. Oh, yeah, were all 16 as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2005): Something very similar happened to me when I was your age and I lost it and flunked my exams. As hard as it may seem concentrate for one week on your exams and secure your future. You can tell the lady in question that you have decided to give her some space and time to deal with the dificult choice she is trying to make. Be strong and after your exams are done you can bring the situation to a head. I would simply demand a choice from her - if she really loves you the choice will be easy and you will be a happy man. Or do what I did and fail your exams and have spelling and grammar like mine.
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