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writes: I have been dating this guy for 2 years. He was controlling, and for a while I thought I'd be the one breaking up with him. He came back home from college because he was homesick and then found an apartment, where he moved in, with his cousin. I then find out that he's been talking to another girl from my high school. We eventually break up and he says he needed time to re-appreciate what he had, and so I can realize it too. Well, I for sure did, but I feel like now he's just pulling me along for the ride, but likes someone else. He claims that he still has feelings for me, and that he doesn't like the other girl but I can't trust him anymore. What should i do? Let him go or keep trying? It's hard to let go of someone though, that you've loved for so long.
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reader, rphillips +, writes (18 May 2005):
You can't love someone you can't trust. You will always be wondering where he is and what he is doing, and if he is just stringing you along. Take a break from him. Go out on some other dates with some men. Play the field. Then if you feel that if you really do miss him and that you really do love him, then you can consider trying to work things out with him.But here's the thing. He has to be willing to work things out with you. And if he is playing the field also and not willing to give that up, then you have your answer.
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