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writes: I need advice again. My best friend has now told his wife that he is in love with me. There was a terrible row over it of course. She asked me if I felt the same, and I told her I did. We never meant to hurt her. My friend has been unhappy for years. He can't seem to leave, as she threatens all kinds of stuff. He tells me he cannot give me up as I am the one he should have been with. We don't know what to do. I have said I will leave him alone,if that's what he wants, but he just cries. What can we do? I can't baer the thought she might hurt herself. But I cant leave him either.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2005): Maybe the first answer was a bit harsh. Men do not always cheat again. Perhaps you need to step back and think what you want for yourself. If this man stays with his wife, then maybe you need to find another love. He could be waiting round the corner you never know. As for being a home wrecker, it dosnt sound to me like this man has much of a home life anyway. BE HAPPY
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reader, fechon +, writes (26 May 2005):
Leave him, you home wrecker. Both of you are sinning. And a man who cheats will remain a cheater for the rest of his life, and you don't need to believe in kharma, but just notice it when it hits you in your face full force. What you do to others will be done onto you my dear. Be a smart gal, leave those garbage men alone, even if you love him. It's for your own good, trust me!
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