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writes: I have known this guy for about 10 years, but just as aquaintances, not even friends. Recently, we have become quite good friends and have been speaking for about three hours each day. And I wouldn't say I've fallen for him, but its getting close. I know he's interested in me, because one evening a couple of months ago he made it obvious, but I chose to ignore this. Not only this, but I started a relationship with another guy who he knew. Another problem is that I have recently become friends with this girl who is in love with the guy I am falling for, and she has been for years. I like this girl, but I know that I'm going to resent her if I don't make anything with this guy. On the other hand, I like this guy, but I don't want to hurt her and I will feel so guilty. Is there anyway of solving this without having to choose between them? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2005): Sorry, you have to choose. If you really want to find out if it works with this fella, go for it!!....You cannot concern yourself with the other young lady. If she was all that interested she would have put her best foot forward already...( or maybe she has and was refused).
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