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writes: I am 19, and a gay guy. I met a guy online, and we got on immediately. I knew he had a boyfriend, so we kept it friendly at first. After a while, he started coming over for drinks etc. And we grew to really like each other. After a few weeks, he slept over a couple of times, and one thing led to another. He has told me many times that he wants to be with me, and he'll break up with his boyfriend when the time is right. Problem is, they live together, and if he breaks up with his boyfriend, he will have no proper income or place to live. I was fine with this, but recently I have just got really emotional about things, and I don't know what to do. I 100% want to pursue the relationship, but don't know where I stand! Reply to this Question
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (8 June 2005):
 You took almost a 100% chance of getting hurt. You entered an already established relationship with an faithful partner. He lied to his boyfriend to get with you. Now he's lying to you to have ample access into your bed. If you wish to stop him from taking advantage of you, cut him off right now. He's using you and his boyfriend. At least, you know. And now's the time to act.
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reader, tlynn +, writes (20 May 2005):
OK, give him time but yet ask him if he has started any ways on moving out and work on that. If he keeps stalling on moving out he's lying to you.
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