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Archived questions from: May, 2013 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Ex-boyfriend wants me to be friends with his new gf

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4194 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - I went out with this man for 5 months and it did not feel right, I did not love him and we are not compatible. Due to his new religion; he tries to tell me what to do and not. I am an open-minded person and respect everyone but I do not like to...

How do I convince him to throw his clothes into a bag & jump on a bus bound up this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - It was 33 years ago that I was told that my first "great" love had been killed by his father. Well, I found him and he still sends butterflies fluttering around my heart! Problem is that he still lives in our home state and I live over 15 hour ...

Girlfriend broke up with me for the 4th time. I owe her money, do I leave a note with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

31 May 2013 (M) - Even though ive been a man in the relationship and paid for our one year anniversary weekend away as well her birthday very recently, my girlfriend broke up with me for the forth time. Dont get me wrong, she has been very good to me such as littl...

I treated her badly she has a restraining order on me but I can't forget her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - Hi I feel like I'm going crazy. I need some serious help. I'm in love with my childhood best friend. I've been in love with her since elementary school. Words can't describe how amazing she is. She is sweet, kind, compassionate, selfless, drop dead ...

Should I contact my ex to see if he is ok even though he disappeared out of my life with no reason?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - My ex and I broke up 7 months ago. We only dated for 6 months and he was having a terrible time from the 2nd month we were dating and onwards. His ex-wife was demanding money, his father died and he moved house all in the space of a month (that wa...

My childhood sweetheart wants to reconnect but never mentioned his fiance to me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

31 May 2013 (F) - I recently reconnected with my high school sweetheart after not tlkn or seeing each other for 9 years. We live on opposite sides of the country. We have talked about getting back together. I found out he has a fiance. He didn't tell me about her ...

Should I try to get to know better the brother of my ex FWB??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4196 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Ok some time ago I wrote in about a really horrible friends with benefits situation I could not seem to get out of. It went on for two years until finally the cloud went from my eyes and I could see the situation for what it really was. We have bot...

Is my boyfriend still not over his ex 2 years later?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend checks his ex girlfriends facebook sometimes, he was deeply hurt by how she treated him and was angry with himself about how he let her hurt him so much and it took him time to get over her. I was insecure that he was not quite ov...

The relationship is amazing, but I'm worried he's not really over his ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - I'm confused. My boyfriend of 8 months and I get along really well. I'm really attracted to him but I'm a little insecure! We talk about future holidays and even what our wedding will be like. He's told me (after a few drinks) how he really really ...

My partner's great, but my ex has come back into the picture ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

30 May 2013 (F) - This will be long so I apologise in advance. A couple of years ago one of my very best friends became my boyfriend. He is a wonderful man who treats me better than I ever thought possible, he adores me and would do anything for me. I found it very ...

Has anyone with retrograde jealousy ever come to terms with it and found peace?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

29 May 2013 (M) - About 2 years ago I posted an issue in this forum about how my wife cheated on me while we were dating and how lost her virginity to another man. This was despite her telling me she would not have premarital sex with anyone until married and I ...

Could I be putting myself in danger by allowing my Ex back in my new life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid,I have been single for ten years now and I want to be back with my ex he is my daughter father I moved to another state to get my life together I stopped drinking and getting high( pot) .Now that we are going older the children are grown ...

Fiance walked out on me while pregnant, I found out he's living with his ex. He wants me back but I can't get over the hurt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - he walked away without a word and left town when I was pregnant. two days later said he left to give me space. I was hurt so I didn't allow him to come right back. then I had the baby he said he was so sorry about hurting me the way he did by ...

Is it reasonable for your fiance to demand that you never speak to any exes?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - My fiance and I recently got engaged, mostly due to the fact that I got pregnant. We were having some problems but when we found out, we decided to work on it. It hasn't been easy but things are slowly improving and we're both excited about the ...

What do I do if she comes on to me? I don't want to be on her "list of resentments"!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4198 days ago

29 May 2013 (M) - Hey all, I need some help! For some backstory, understand that my ex, lets call her Sue (names changed obviously) and I were a great couple back in high school and at the beginning of college despite going to schools that were 500 miles apart. Whe...

I'm torn between 2 boys. One is an ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4198 days ago

29 May 2013 (F) - Im torn between these two boys "A" is a ex who I've always had an amazing connection with we were together for a bit last October after we admitted feelings for echother finally i kinda used to put him in the friend zone beacause the thought of us ...

Torn between fiance and ex boyfriend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I have been in relationship with H since past 6 years, our relationship is good, as I remember a lot of happy times and yes a few bad ones but that's how life is. I have had 3 relationships before H which all lasted less then 1 year. My las...

Is my recent ex dating already?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

28 May 2013 (M) - Dated ex gf for year and half. She broke up with me 5 months ago. A few weeks ago she contacts me and says still in love with me, misses me, and wanted to spend all kinds of time together. It was great because I still loved her. She then says ...

Could we have moved too fast jumping together and is there any way to reconcile this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4198 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - my boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 months now we met at a prison that I work at. In the beginning he went behind my back and was texting his ex girlfriend knowing that it was not cool with me.so we moved passed it and have had minor ...

I feel confused as to what he is thinking!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I need help my new relationship confuses the hell out of me! I have been seeing someone for four months and I don't get my relationship!. I've been divorced twice have three kids. I started seeing my little boys friends Dad in January he split wi...

Is marriage a deal breaker?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - I've been with my partner for 3 1/2 yrs now and we still don't live together because of both our situations. He going through a divorce and almost at the end and me because 'im not working. I love him very much and he loves me too, i would really l...

I feel like I will never find anyone like my ex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Ok so i dated this guy for 3 years on and off and inbetween the break ups he had 3 kids and got married well recently i sent him a friend request its been 3 years since i seen him and i messaged him sayin hi . Well lately it seems like i cant stop ...

There's a part of me that wants to go back to my ex but I know its not a good idea!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

28 May 2013 (F) - Hi. Im new to this so please bare with me. My bf and I broke up after alot of bullshit between the both of us.we were both emotionally cheating.we decided to take a break. But I felt like during this break he was blaming everything on me.i felt I w...

Should I write to my ex or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - I left a 5 year on-off relationship about 20 months ago. He was seeing other women. I said I will stay friends but I read few articles about 'no contact rules' to heal myself so I followed it and have been fine. I am fine as I had closure. ...

My gf is never interested in sex and I am starting to miss my ex. How should I deal with this?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

27 May 2013 (M) - My girlfriend seems to never be interested in sex. We've been together for eight months now and only had sex TWICE, two months ago. It's getting to the point where I can't handle the frustration anymore. I take her out, I buy her gifts, flowers, ...

My ex's gf is driving a wedge between my kids and their dad. How should I deal with this?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4195 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hi Dear Cupid Im writing this through rage and tears... Me and my ex broke up 3 years ago, we have two amazing children together, He has moved on and has a child with another girl, their relationship is rocky most of the time, My ex has a bad Alc...

The men I date always talk about their ex's is this normal?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hello, I just want an honest opinion on this one. Im an attractive, pretty cool young woman who is independent. I wonder why men that I date always tell me or talk about other women? When I say other women I mean ex girlfriends or some women in ...

Herpes. How do I tell my volatire partner? Should I avoid a big fight and not tell, or take a risk??? please help!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

27 May 2013 (F) - Hello everyone, Im a 28 yr old female. I just took standard blood work because im in the health field and a routine gyn pap, every thing came out normal. I got a letter about about my bloodwork. I called the office and found out I have Herp...

It bothers me that my b/f has a tatoo on his foot of the day his g/f died

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. He has a tattoo on his foot representing the date that his first girlfriend died in a car accident several years ago. At the beginning of our relationship I didn't mention the tattoo, but ...

I am so happy with my boyfriend, but his roomate/ex/best friend hates me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Hi guys! The people on this site have helped me loads in the past and I'm hoping you can help me again with your advice. I got out of a very bad LTR last year which started when I was very young, for almost 4 years I was cheated on and manipulat...

Weekend's with my boyfriend's children leave me feeling like a slave

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Hi Hope you can help me. I am 33 years old. I have been with my partner (not married) for 2 years. He has 2 kids whom I love to bits and I don't have any, but my fella does want more with me. When my boyfriend was in his late teens, ...

When he doesn't want me, he throws me away. When he does want me, he expects me to go flying to him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my ex last month because he drifted apart. He's white and I'm Asian. He studies abroad now. He never contacted me so I asked him for closure. He didn't say anything either. I was pissed because I don't even deserve a closure after ...

I have a friend I'm in love with. Do I just leave her alone? She still loves her ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4196 days ago

26 May 2013 (M) - Okay,so recently I reconnented with a former best friend who stop talking to me because of her then boyfriend. Anyway we started back talking april 15th and we were dating that same day. We been together before she broke up with me Thursday, because ...

I visited an old boyfriend after 4 years. Is he worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4201 days ago

26 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, After four years, I booked a flight to visit my ex-boyfriend in Florida. The trip itself felt more like a dream because I didn't think I'd ever see him again. I had moved on, dated other guys and matured as a person whereas he did t...

Is it normal for ex wives/husbands going on vacation together normal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4201 days ago

25 May 2013 (M) - I am on my third marriage/my wife also her third. My wife is going on vacation with her grown kids, grandchildren and with her ex husband from her first marriage. The ex is bringing his girlfriend also. I just find it strange that she would want to ...

Please help me understand my bisexual boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4202 days ago

25 May 2013 (M) - My current boyfriend, Johnny, used to go out with a 21 year old bisexual guy, Kevin. They dated for 4 years. During that time, their relationship was open from the start and Johnny who is gay, forced himself to conform to Kevin's ways and slept with ...

My boyfriend is attending a wedding, his ex will be there and it's also my birthday. How should I read his request that I not attend the wedding?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4199 days ago

25 May 2013 (F) - Hi, I am confused about what to do and how to feel... My boyfriend will attend the wedding of a high school classmate. They are not close friends. They haven't seen each other for 2 years. He invited him to his wedding 3 weeks before the weddi...

I feel jealous now that my ex-boyfriend has a new girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - I've dated this guy when i was in school. He was my first boyfriend but we broke up after 5 months, we were still young and didn't know how to work things out. Now that 7 years pass we remain friends, we still keep in touch and some days we would...

Ex BF says he won't consider a reconciliation if I go on a holiday with my friend! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

23 May 2013 (F) - I have been split up with my ex for 3 weeks now. We were living together and he said he wanted a break. We have argued constantly over the 2 years it seems he wants me of a weekday then of a weekend he just wants his mates. I can admit I have bee...

Feels like my Gf does not trust me. How can I cheer her up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4198 days ago

23 May 2013 (M) - "Dear Cupid", I just got a girlfriend about 2 weeks ago. We get along really well and we love being around each other because we can almost predict what the other one is thnkng, which I think is a massive improvement on how we acted around each ote...

At what point has a relationship boundaries been crossed and the necessity for privacy to go by the wayside?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4197 days ago

23 May 2013 (M) - Hi, I've been struggling with some issues in my relationship. My girlfriend of a year has remained in contact with some exes. She has stated that its not a big deal they just message her on occasion and the conversations do not really go beyond...

Why does my ex want nothing to do with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4204 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - My ex broke up with me 7 months ago and has maintained no contact since then. I have always loved him and a part of me still does, and I accept that he does not want to be with me anymore, but why doesn't he at least want to be friends with me? I...

Whenever we have problems my g/f goes running to her ex boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

22 May 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, I just spent the weekend on a wonderful mini vacation with my girlfriend. We are both 25 years old. We've been together for 3 years now and we have a great relationship which is very loving from both sides. We have had fights i...

Cant stop deaming about my son's father and the woman he cheated on me with....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I am torturing myself over here. My ex of 2 years who I was crazy about, and I had a child together. Throughout the relationship he was abusive, and cheated, and I kept forgiving, and giving chances. After 2 years of the off and on and constant lies ...

How could a guy like him fall for a girl like her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Thank you for taking the time to read my question. I have been dating the most wonderful man, Jeff, for about a year now, I have met his parents and he’s met mine, we’re planning to get married early next year. Everything’s perfect and I may be j...

No sex since January. Am I being paranoid? My instincts say he's messing about, but hides things. How can I be sure of it??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - Am I paranoid or is he up to something? I recently have noticed my boyfriend is acting like he's up to something lately. We haven't been intimate since January. I put this down to him having a low sex drive and he had made comments about not gett...

Broke up a month ago. Does he still love me? He said his "real friends" are stopping him from dating me again.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4205 days ago

22 May 2013 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend around a month ago. we've dated for 2 and a half years, though i was the one who suggested a break up, i miss him so much, and i actually want him back. The reason why, i suggested a break up was because we always h...

She's pregnant with the other guy's child, says she doesn't want him anymore but then why does she still have his photos, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

21 May 2013 (M) - Please help me i had been dating for 9years with my girlfriend, I find out she was seeing someone else then i move out of our apartment i still love her a lot we even have a child together i find out she is pregnant with that guys child she told she ...

Why do I miss him, even after a week? He dumped me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years dumped me last week. He was very abusive for that past 6 months. Long story short, I haven't called him since the day he dumped me. I'm making myself busy at work so I won't have time to mope. But for the past 2 days...

My fiance's ex is getting out of jail and he once told me he'd never love me as much as he loves her, am I going to get kicked to the curb when she's back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4206 days ago

21 May 2013 (F) - Hi everyone. To start off Im engaged and happy for the most part. My fiancé list year got full custody of his kids which I love with all my heart. The kids mother went to jail and ate now getting out early.my fiancé knew about her getting out early ...