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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Can he refuse to see the kids on the specified dates if there is an order by the court?

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31 March 2011 (F) - i recently got a court order for scheduled visitation for my children and their dad. let me inform u that he has already been seeing them prior to this order. i decided to get the court involved bcuz he called when he wanted and my kids always had ...

He cheated on me with his psycho ex and he has dope issues...should I take him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Right so me and my boyfriend have been together for like seven months now. But before me there was another girl, and he was with her for 3 years. She fucked him over big time, like seriously messed with him emotionally and phsyically. S o a few week...

He burned me. I've done everything I can to get over it, but it still hurts. Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I met a guy at work last year. We had a thing, for a few months, until I started to listen to the voice in my head about how he seemed to good to be true and yet always unavailable when I needed him. Surprise he's engaged to his gf of 8 years. I ...

He was once married and never told me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hi there, I met my boyfriend 2 years ago and we have been living in the same house with his parents who own a big house and we wanted to save before we move out.About a year ago in April I found out that he was married and nobody told me,neith...

I slept with my ex's best friend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - This is a confusing situation and I think I have to write out the whole scenario so I can get advice about what to do, but basically... I was with my ex for a long time, we were each others firsts and we had a happy healthy relationship. At thi...

I asked my best friend to remove my ex from his Facebook, but intead he sends him a birthday message!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Hey Guys got an issue with Fb. I have posted time and again on this site and you always seemed to say the right thing; Anyways the issue I am having is with my ex. I posted a question about him early but needless to say he's been on my mind again ...

Confused and a little lost on the whole situation.......I don't know what I can do anymore!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4988 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - Before I begin I would just like to apologize for how long this is. I'm not sure what I need to do, and I'm actually not sure what the problem is exactly, so her is my whole story. I had a crush on a boy (T) at my school since the beginning of N...

Does chemistry ever go away?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I recently saw an ex-lover again and was overwhelmed by the wave of sheer animal desire that hit me just talking to him over lunch. We had decided not to see each other because it was torture controlling that, and being in a relationship together ...

I sometimes feel like a slut because I have had 2 ex-boyfriends...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I have this problem.. well the fact is that its hard for me to get an orgasm. I have had 3 partners including my boyfriend. I had my first boyfriend form the age of 15-17 and the second was a person whom I liked, but he just used me for sex a cou...

She said she just wants to see hang out with me and see where things go from there...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I recently posted a question regarding my conflict of being with a girl, but having a girl who I used to adore, tell me she has always liked me. Here's my situation, it's kinda complicated but here it goes. I recently broke up with my girlfrie...

Should I continue to talk and be sexual with ex or just let her go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - I dated my ex for almost 3 years. she ended the relationship she said I didnt do anything wrong she just had fallen out of love but we both admitted that and that we loves eachother still just not in love. well weve been split up for over a year ...

Does he still care for her or am I just being needy and jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I've been dating this guy for about 5months now and our relationship has turned sort of sour because I've been too needy and I am totally aware of the fact. Im too insecure and Im always wanting reassurance however i think this has started because ...

Have to see Ex-BF tomorrow and not sure I'll be able to control my anger. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Your Open Question: How should I act when I see my lying cheating ex boyfriend? ? My ex boyfriend lied to me, cheated and dumped me. I knew something wasn't right cos he said he doesn't want a relationship. I found out he was sleeping with s...

Is there a way to stop this unwanted attention from his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4878 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I'm currently 16 years old, and I got asked out last September for the first time. We did not talk much for the first 4months as I was shy. After getting into arguments, I decided just to go for it and now we are closer than I have ever been to ...

3 years we've been together and suddenly he's calling me by his ex's name?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 happy years but in the last month he has been getting my name wrong and calling me by his ex-girlfriends name. This has happened on 2 occasions now and it has shocked and upset me so much. When It happened the ...

A lack of attention from women is really starting to affect my confidence. How can I improve my success with women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4987 days ago

30 March 2011 (M) - A lack of attention from women is really starting to affect my confidence. Okay, I know that clubs are not a great place to meet women, but it has worked for me in the past and I know it works for a lot of guys. I just feel like women aren't att...

Even though he cheated on me and weren't on good terms, yet I cant get over the break-up....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - me and my boyfriend finished about a week ago and i have found out all the time he was with me he was seeing someone else to, this isnt the reason we split, we split because we wasnt on good terms then i didnt see him for 2 weeks as he was working ...

My ex keeps asking after me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - Basically I'm going to visit my friends for a week...staying in the town where my ex girlfriend lives!!!! Recently I hear she has been asking people when I'm next in town etc and that she wishes she could talk to me..... I can't understand w...

On off on off on off relationship: I need to break free!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - hey all.. i have a bit of i problem i would like to solve. i feel terrible admitting it but i have little to no will power when it comes to dealing with my ex. she has pretty much made my life hell the past year and i don't know how to make this...

I'm so confused and I feel so stuck. I need any advice I can get!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I recently got out of an abusive relationship. As soon as it turned abusive I left for the safety of myself AND our 1yr old son. For about 6 months I have been seeing someone else. The guy is actually one of my best friends. I've known him for ye...

Should I stick it out with my B/f and see if things change? Or go back to my ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Dear cupids, please help!. I have posted a couple of posts on here about my 'boyfriend'. Ive said I dont see him enough even though we live soooo close to each other. He adds girls on facebook everynight, although I do know he not meeting them. He ...

Was my long distance girl using me? Or is it something more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (M) - hey this is in regards to long distance realtiolnsihp/ romance. any help or expect advice in this area would be appreciative I posted a while ago about how i maintained my distance from my long distance lover (girl) because of fear of heartb...

I know I need to break up with him, but how do I do this when I have my son to think about?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - so here is the situation. im 20 yrs and my boyfriend is 28 yrs old. he has a son with his ex and i have a son with my ex. we have been dating for 9 months and now im in the position where its too difficult. he blames me for a lot of the finances ...

My ex has moved in with the girl he cheated on me with, why do I feel so hurt by this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4990 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I recently found out that my ex (whom I dated for 5 years) and broke up with 8 months ago, has moved in together with his current girlfriend whom he cheated on me with (the cause of our breakup). This has shocked me as we never made that step as a ...

Should I confront my ex about his cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4991 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I recently split up with my boyfriend of 7 months since we were constantly at odds with each other due to his controlling and possessive behavior towards me. I recently found out via facebook that he was cheating on me (or vice versa) with the ...

My ex is trying to hang out with me again, but I have a new boyfriend.....should I be friends with him or is he trying to get me back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4989 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - ok, so i was dating this wonderful guy for about 3 and a half months. i lost my virginity to him after we were only dating for a week. i knew that it was too soon and that people would think i was stupid for it. but i couldn't see myself regretting ...

Why did my ex un-friend me on facebook when she found out I was dating someone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4989 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - I date this girl for about 4 years. We broke up in August very amicably. We both loved each other but knew because of our circumstances could not get married. So I found out on fb 2 months later that she had met someone then she got engaged to ...

My ex moved on, now having a baby, I'm not over him, heard he still cares, what to do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I recently wrote in and asked 'how do you mend a broken heart?' My ex of 2 years and i split up 10months ago. We were in a LDR between Uk and USA. He tried to get me back for ages, saying how much he had messed up and missed me and i generally ...

My ex is cheating on her current boyfriend with me......

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - My ex-girlfriend is cheating on her current boyfriend with me. It had been a year since we broke up and I get a text from her Recently. You can guess what happened from there and is still happening. I say she needs to leave her current boyfriend ...

Is my ex being genuine this time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I dated a guy last for a couple of months. We had great chemistry and I really liked him. But he was immature, he started standing me up. Then he only wanted me to come over late at night. Then the next day he'd be desperate to get rid of me. W...

Why is my ex still talking about me and telling friends she loves me when she has a new boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4991 days ago

28 March 2011 (M) - Here's a weird one...Today I get a phone call from my best friend telling me he saw my ex girlfriend in town and she kept asking how I am and when I'll never be in town....then another mate tells me last night his gf and my ex gf were talking and...

I should be moving on but I can't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - I can't get over my ex! We were together for so long and it ended to suddenly. Right now, I can't see myself moving on at all. For some reasons, he hates me right now. He's cut me out of his life completely and won't let me talk to him at all. He ...

My soon to be ex-husband has hurt me very badly, but says he doesn't want me to hate him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - I need advice! Myself and my ex separated now x2 yrs ago, but i still have some feelings for him. I have let him stay in my house until he finds somewhere else to live (raise a deposit). He does support us financially but he constantly reminds me ...

I want my marriage back, but my feelings for the other woman are keeping me from rekindling my relationship with my wife.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4988 days ago

27 March 2011 (M) - I really need some help on this one. In prior posts I spoke of how after a 6 year marriage and two kids, my marriage was failing due to a lack of intimacy, attraction and just all out togetherness. We never fought or argued, we just drifted apart. ...

I am tortured by the relationship my boyfriend had with his first girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year, things were great he was the best of the best. The guy who respects woman, loves her with unconditional care, and is an absolute gentleman. He had only had one ex girlfriend who lasted for 7 mon...

Ex wants me back, but I don't know if I can trust her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

27 March 2011 (M) - So my ex of three years called me on my birthday after 3 months of our break up and a month of our last conversation. My life really changed positively and I moved on (Somewhat) I still think about her sometimes and I haven't really cried for her in ...

How do I cope with the possibility of seeing my ex out and about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

27 March 2011 (M) - Hey everyone! I have a problem dealing with an ex. There was an event that I knew he would be at and I ended up going. However, midway throughout the event I decided to leave because I felt very uncomfortable knowing he would be arriving. I wanted ...

We have an open relationship. How can I become number one with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4991 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - there's this guy i met and sparks flew instantly we went out two times as friends and delayed our third ( and romantic ) date due to both of us being usually busy the thing is between that time he returned with his ex girlfriend ( open relationship) ...

Cheated on my ex with my current G/f and my ex cheated on me with my best friend whom she's dating now....yet we sneak and make out and are perfect for each other!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

27 March 2011 (M) - Okay so my life is complicated...this is going to get confusing..just a warning before you get started... Okay well first off about 2 years ago I cheated on my ex for my girlfriend im dating now (for 2 years)...well I still love my ex and my ex ...

I ended a relationship because my ex said he loved me then he asked some other girl out!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - This is going to make me sound really selfish and in a way I think I am acting selfish. My ex-boyfriend and I broke up about 6 months ago and I was glad it was over for multiple reasons. I moved on rather quickly but my ex interfered. He told me ...

My ex and I are friends, I told him I had sex with someone else and he screamed at me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

27 March 2011 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of over a year a few weeks ago. Still wanting to remain friends, I decided we should still be able to talk about anything. I had sex with a friend of mine a few days ago. For some INCREDIBLY stupid reason, I told my ex. ...

Should I delete my ex off my Facebook?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

26 March 2011 (M) - Basically I was wondering if I should delete my ex girlfriend off of Facebook? We broke up two months ago and three weeks after the break up, she got into another relationship with another guy! I kills me to see pics with her new bf etc. But I ...

Is my ex already with someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4993 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm having a really hard time at the moment and would appreciate any answers, thanks :) Sorry if it's a bit long!! My ex broke up with me just under 2 months ago. We had been together about 5 and a half years. I was still very much in love wit...

I can't get over him, and I have to see him every day

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - I can't get over my ex boyfriend. We've been over for four months and I've done everything wrong. I've tried getting him back by begging and crying and telling him how I felt and I guess guys don't like to hear all that junk. So I moved on and once ...

Would you be friends with an ex who cheated emotionally?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4993 days ago

26 March 2011 (M) - I really need your help. We broke up about 4 months ago because she was cheating emotionally. After breakup she started dating the same guy. Now they have broken up and she contacted me by email and wants to be friends with me and see me for ...

My fiance's sister wants to date my ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

25 March 2011 (?) - So a couple of years ago, I dated this guy. He was a HUGE part of my life, and we dated for a long time. However, we grew up, and went our seprate ways. But we still talk. I moved 6 hours away, and...every couple of months, i'll get a text or a ...

Why does my Ex want to talk to me???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

25 March 2011 (M) - I hear from People that my ex girlfriend wishes she could/wants to talk to me.. But the girl got into another relationship 3 weeks after we broke. Personally, if I were her I want to spend time getting to know my new partner rather than worr...

I'm bothered by her contact with her ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4994 days ago

25 March 2011 (M) - Is it okey to feel insecure about my girlfirend keeping in touch with her ex boyfriend? She is texting with him, speaking on the phone with him and sending messages to his facebook inbox. When I told her that this is really bothering me, be...

Still feel drawn toward a bad-news ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4992 days ago

25 March 2011 (M) - I cannot stop loveing her its consumeing me. Ive posted about this before but things have changed and i need some more help. To anyone reading this i thank you just for takeing the time. Five years ago i began a relationship with a girl three y...

Was I the very very last to know? Has he been a liar to me all along? I'm devastated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4994 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - i started seeing my bf last june. we both work for the government and there is a strict non fraternization policy so we keep it on the DL. i have been 2 LTR's and do not have a lot of experience playing the field. but i really liked this guy so i ...