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30-35,
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writes:Hey everyone! I have a problem dealing with an ex. There was an event that I knew he would be at and I ended up going. However, midway throughout the event I decided to leave because I felt very uncomfortable knowing he would be arriving. I wanted to stay but at the same time I did not want to torture myself. I need advice as to how to handle these situations. I know that I cannot allow the notion of him stop me from living my life and going where I would like to be when I would like to do it. I know that I have to push myself to do be myself regardless of what he may think but when I do so as I tried tonight, I feel extremely uncomfortable and uneasy. Any advice? Any advice would be greatly appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you folks! I appreciate it. It helped a lot! xoxo
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reader, CuppenZeCake +, writes (27 March 2011):
 Depending on how recent the break up was, it sounds like youre not giving yourself a lot of time to move on. The nervousness is to be expected and he might feel nervous to. Perhaps go out with friends where you know he won't be and try to focus on having fun instead of constantly looking at the door. It'll be difficult for a while but if you are with friends it's a lot easier to realise you can be happy with out a relationship right now C: I hope I helped! Good luck! And you SO aren't alone with trying to move on
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