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*ilo117
writes:I cannot stop loveing her its consumeing me.Ive posted about this before but things have changed and i need some more help. To anyone reading this i thank you just for takeing the time.Five years ago i began a relationship with a girl three years older than me. My life has been very difficult these past five years, my pairents divorced i was contantly bullyed in school and have been recently diognosed with dippersion and Schitzophrenia. Im attending theropy twice a week and im on medication but its new and my doctor is till getting the dosage right. My ex "Anne" has recently come back into my life and been playing with my mind. She has overcome my emotional barries against her several times this last month. Got me drunk at a party and used me for her own reasons. Ive had trouble breaking away from her control but still find myself drawn to her like i need her and i think i still want to be with her. Witch i know is unhealthy. I feel so down so weak and helpless. Ive been getting messages from her still and she is begging me to come and see her to be with her. Ive been ignoreing them but the sad part of it is in my heart i want to be with her.I have a new and supportive girl freind who has been with me the whole time that i have been infulanced by her. And i love her very much. I dont trust myself anymore these thoughts wont go away. She still has a mental grip on me.I need help as i feel that i will be overcome by her again and fall back to my ex. What can i do i feel like im loseing control of my life.Thanks in advcance Milo
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reader, CuppenZeCake  +, writes (27 March 2011):
 Hey man I'm so sorry :( it sounds like a ton is happening in your life and yeah it sucks to deal with. Anne shouldn't be given the time of day. I thnk you should move on completely. It may feel like you have to go back to her but if all she does is make you feel worse then NO WAY! She's using you and I think you want to go back to her because it was familiar. My advice, block her out and don't answer texts or calls and don't see her. I think your unhappiness right now is connected to her. Focus on the girl who supports you because she could make you the happiest person alive if you let her :)
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