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*eccamega
writes:I dated a guy last for a couple of months. We had great chemistry and I really liked him. But he was immature, he started standing me up. Then he only wanted me to come over late at night. Then the next day he'd be desperate to get rid of me. We had a huse fight when he turned up drink with a friend, when we were supposed to be on a date. We've been broken up for 7 months now. He's contacted me 3 times since then. He apologised and wants to meet up for coffee. What should I do? I got sick and tired of him doing this the last time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2011): Why give him another chance? I would say he's blown it with you. Don't give me the opportunity to upset you again - because he probably will.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2011): i agree with other other people on this . get rid of him sweetie i jsut went through this. i got rid of him because he lied to me and found out he was on multi dting sites while he said he loved me . it was all lies plus he came up to see at 9;30 at night . but than the next day he said it was a mistake . and he never came back . i let him back in my life onces before and found out more crap .this timei blocked his emails and all contacts . onces they think they can get in your pants freely he wil keep doing it . just be strong and not sleep wit hhim and see what he does . if the first thing he does when he see you and wants to fool around dump him . its about sex only
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (28 March 2011):
 To me it sounds like he didnt care about you at all when you were together. He treated you bad and if im honest it just sounds like he was only with you for sex. Dont let him use you again. If you really liked him and want to give him a chance well then meet up with him and see what he has to say for himself. I guess some people do change. But dont let him use you again. Goodluck.
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reader, thomas1214  +, writes (28 March 2011):
meet up with him for coffee. if he acts the same as he did before find someone else. if he doesnt give him a chance, but if he slips up once then break it off. dont let him do the whole oh baby im so sorry crap.
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