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*cclareng3
writes:So my ex of three years called me on my birthday after 3 months of our break up and a month of our last conversation. My life really changed positively and I moved on (Somewhat) I still think about her sometimes and I haven't really cried for her in forever. The reason that hurts is that when we broke up a month later she started going on dates with this one guy a lot and it hurt so much and made me move on..Now she called me and tells me she thinks about me everyday and misses me and checks my facebook everyday. I'm so lost and shocked, I didn't expect it. But one of the reasons that makes me not want to try is the fact after 3 years, she goes out with a guy a month later (this shows me she didn't care enough for me). So she told she had the right because she was single and I understand but deep down I don't think its right.I don't know what to do, do I give her another chance and just keep it the way it is and not go back out with her?? please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011): i think this question is only for you! only you know if you want her back or not. Was she a good girlfriend? Why'd you break up? If it was that hard to see her move on you obviously loved her and if you still think of her from time to time and only somewhat moved on you should just take her back because i was once that girl and ive done the same thing she has but she realized oh my god your the one go for her! but only you can decide! good luck:)
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reader, Lotsalove. +, writes (27 March 2011):
 I think she was with you for 3 years which is somewhat a considerably long time and she thought 'Im bored of this, I want to see what else is out there' - Reason why she dated so quick after you (unless she was already in contact with him). However, she's realised that what she wants and needs is you. And now shes had her little play outside of the 'safe zone' of being in a relationship, she wants to come back in again because she's realised she wasn't missing out on anything.The question is will you take her back knowing that? Knowing that she wanted to test the waters with someone else, that didnt work and so she wants you back? Just be careful, because if you do take her back... she may do it again because she knows she can.
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reader, melanie01  +, writes (27 March 2011):
 Before you consider taking her back. You should look at the reasons why you broke up in the first place. Are those reasons still going to be there? Are you going to feel the same about her? or is it going to hurt everytime you look at her and remember how quickly she moved on.
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reader, incendia1990 +, writes (27 March 2011):
 Your right. if she moved on that quickly, it proves she didnt care enough. people want what they think/know they cant have. so since you seem to be moving on, it worries her and now she think she cant have you, so she wants you. my advice: move on and find someone worth it. :)
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