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I should be moving on but I can't!

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Question - (27 March 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2011)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I can't get over my ex! We were together for so long and it ended to suddenly. Right now, I can't see myself moving on at all. For some reasons, he hates me right now. He's cut me out of his life completely and won't let me talk to him at all. He has tons of admirers and close girl friends. He told me about a lot of potential girl friends and I really don't have anyone right now :( our relationship gave me a lot of problems and I should be moving on but I can't! Please help!

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A female reader, ayeshaH United Kingdom +, writes (23 July 2011):

hi there :)

im sorry you have to go through such a hard time. breaking up is never easy.

he has probably cut you out because thats the only way he will be able to get over you and move on.

but him telling you about all these potential girls is quite insensitive and hurtful.

i know its the last think you want to do when you've broken up with someone but really if you want to completely get over this guy then you have to cut him out completely. delete his number and email address.

its too easy to fall into the trap when you are really missing him and text him or email him.

its totally up to you if you want to become firends after. but for now give it some time and delete all form of contact.

i know from experience that this is the best way to move on.

hope things go well for you

xx.

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A female reader, theresag New Zealand +, writes (23 July 2011):

You are wasting your energy on the past.Get out with your girlfriends and live.He is wrong to tell you what he is up to.It shows what kind of person he really is.Move on.

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