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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I hear from People that my ex girlfriend wishes she could/wants to talk to me..But the girl got into another relationship 3 weeks after we broke. Personally, if I were her I want to spend time getting to know my new partner rather than worrying about not speaking to my ex and asking how they are etc. Could someone explain this to me????
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 March 2011):
I think Abella got it right. She might be feeling guilty, or might be having second thoughts. For what it's worth, an ex of mine pretty much did this to me. But she was out of luck, because I wouldn't stand for it. Whatever she is feeling, this is a girl who ended it with you and was in another relationship within 3 weeks. So either her head was never in the right place, or she was thinking about it before dating him. I wouldn't really bother about talking to her, or consider taking her back. She has a new boyfriend now, and can live with it. Don't be the spare tyre, just continue with no contact, move on from her and you'll meet someone who is far more committed and sure about what she wants.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (26 March 2011):
 your ex has had second thoughts and is now regretting losing you. If she was over you she would not give you a second thought. But her rebound guy is not as good as she thought. In fact he is not as good as you in various ways. If she was satisfied that her rebound guy was better than you she would not even think of wanting to talk to you again.
Now she is hoping she might be able to convince you to reconnect with you. So what you do next is your call.
Best wishes, Abella
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reader, 14CA48 +, writes (26 March 2011):
The real question is do you want to talk to her? and if yall did end up talking how will you feel? and how do you think her new partner will feel about yall talking? also some more detils will be helpful like who broke up with who and why and how long yall dated etc.
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